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When your XH finds out who's riding the Harley .... gosh ...I wish I could be there to see his face in disbelief <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

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Good for you, believer. I hope he drives it past your ex's and the skank's house twice a day...forever!

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Then he told me that was the best trade he ever made, his ex-wife for a Harley!


Well when you put it that way, who can argue? Smart man. Brilliant thinker. Now how can I work that deal in my sitch?

BTW, in Dubai, I kept my Road King in the living room and my Deuce in the dining room. I'm not joking.

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WH always loved his bikes and took good care of them. We have had a couple in our house from time to time.

Of course, he has no idea who is getting his Harley. And if you know how bikers are - their bike is almost like their woman.

On the other hand, I think that he must feel some remorse for what he did to OW's husband. He was always a good man before his affair. We used to do lots of outreach work to homeless vets. So I don't think WH will feel too bad.

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Yes I do know. Someone rode my wife and I can forgive that but I pity the fool who tries to ride my Harley.

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Believer,

You may not even remember me, I mostly lurk. But I had to come out say that was absolutely BRILLIANT!

You just gave me the biggest smile of the day! All blessings to you -- you so deserve it!
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Absolutely an unselfish act--one of grace and of a giving spirit.
Love it!!!!!
Love you!!, too!!!

Intexas


BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.


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Believer... awesome.

Now he just needs my helmet sticker...

I'm not f*ing stupid
But I used to


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I thought there was no helmet law in CA? Darn commies!

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Believer, you're precious.


I do not blame the xwh for his affairs and abandoning our marriage. He fulfills 90% of the Cleckley Criteria

I forgive him for his insanity and I forgive myself for being gullible to his charms.
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STANDING AND APPLAUDING


<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> BELIEVER <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


The queen, for her part, is the unifying force of the community; if she is removed from the hive, the workers very quickly sense her absence. After a few hours, or even less, they show unmistakable signs of queenlessness. - Man and Insects
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I'm waiting for the OW's husband to come home from work. I left him a note that I have something for him. I had planned all along to give him the Harley.

Then he told me that was the best trade he ever made, his ex-wife for a Harley!

Poetic justice.

Nicely done, believer.

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Believer,

You Rock! Totally! You are now one of my hero's!


"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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Thanks everyone! I was thinking about it last night and wish that my WH did it to do the right thing. However I think it probably has more to do with his desire to get divorced and marry the OW. It's been 3 and a half years and she is probably putting some pressure on him.

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I think you should get OWH to take you on a little spin. The two of you together cruising right in front of the little love shak! (You can't tell me if your H. heard that bike coming down the street that he wouldn't look! LOL)

Believer, YOU are my FAVORITE today!

Bless you girl.


Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail. ~ Kinky Friedman
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Believer,

You are the classiest, kindest person I never met!!!!!!!!!!!!

- Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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He let the bike go that the other woman considers the property of "that [email]bi@tch[/email] wife of your's".

Believer, you are awesome!

Caught him broadside and sent him to the bottom in flames AND took the booty.

Now he has to contend with the sharks and the bottomfeeders.


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{{Believer}} I stand in awe of you, my friend. Can you hear me shouting and clapping from up north of ya? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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WOW!!!!! JUST AWESOME!!!
Believer, That's the best thing I've heard in forever!!!!

You definitely ROCK!!!!!


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Believer, I found myself laughing and eyes tearing at the same time when I read this.

"Then he told me that was the best trade he ever made, his ex-wife for a Harley!"

Your H has to be the biggest idiot! Not only did he loose you, one he** of a class act, he lost his Harley, and he's stuck with the booby prize. Plus he has to live with the fact that he was a good man!

You better take a sping with OW's H on that Harley, right past their little "love nest." Then the 2 of you should wave and give them your biggest smiles!!!

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