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#1671727 05/31/06 02:58 PM
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Just wanted to come on and post an update of sorts.


Things with WW have came to another head. Not much has changed.
A friend of mine helped remind me what an addict needs for help. (Motivation) Usually it must come in the form of a loss of something really big. Then the person can face the cross road with clarity.

I'm sad that I don't have good news for everyone on here that has been pulling for me.

I feel like I need to personally give a shout out to Lexxxy, Mortorman, Please Help, Owl, Lost Husband, The wonderings, Katie M, LA, and others that have followed and posted to me as my support group.
It has been many of you that were there to help hold me up and get me threw literally day to day for a while.

There have been so many stories on here that have touched me and motivated me. Some other posters like Dorry, Bob Pure, Just Learning, Orchid, Loni, hurtinginok, and even Peachy to name just a few are great reads and offer so much.

I can't thank you all enough.

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Dazed, so sorry things aren't looking better. But you are sounding strong. Will you buy the new house in your name only? Is your current house in both names? How will this work legally? How long will dd be gone to summer camp? Oh, Dazed, I wish things were going better, but I know you'll be okay whatever happens. I'd have to agree with you about the motivation. I've been thinking the same things about my WH -- he doesn't have the motivation to make a decision because he's too busy cake-eating. So, get out there and MOTIVATE!

Good luck and take care, Dazed. I always watch for your updates, I'd really love to know what happens.

Dulce


BS (me) 36 WH 38 Married 15+ yrs DS 11 DDay #1 2-2-05 DDay #2 7-21-05 (15th anniversary) DDay #3 4-10-06 (they're just "talking" now) Currently in IC, trying to decide what to do next.
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Thanks for the update Dazed. Keep us posted when you can. Still praying for your family.


Me-41 BS (FWS)
DH-41 WS (FBS)
2DD's- 10 and 12
Married 15 years
Separated for 2 years after my A
Reconciled for 1 year before his A
D-day for his A 8/23/05
WH moved out 9/16/05
Divorce final 1/23/07
Affair ended or month or so later
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dazed --
let us know if you're ready to pick up the program again.

you seem to be without a plan. I really beleive that if you had followed the MB program to the letter, you would be either be heading towards recovery with your wife, or YOU alone would be further along.

I really sorry to hear that you're still in limbo. Its the very most painful place to be.

thanks for the update, I've been wondering....

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Lexxxy~ Hey good to hear from you. How are you doing?
I really think you have some great insight and have always looked forward to reading your comments on my sitch.

There are some things working behind the MB sceens right now that I don't want to report here. On the down low on so to speak...

Are you on any other sights other than MB? If so let me know.

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Dazed,

How about a SITREP?

xring


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