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I am having to start completely over to win my wifes love back, so I have a plan and wander what you guys think. I am going to do a secret admirer thing first. I am getting one of her friends at work to help. He is going to hide the notes for me so she'll find them. They are going to be short and non-scary. I am opening each letter with "hello beautiful lady." which is something I normally wouldnt say before. One night I am sending flowers to her, she hates flowers and knows that I know this so it should throw her off a bit. On the 5th night I am going to see her at work, act like a stranger, walk up to her and say "hello beautiful lady" and eventually ask her on a date. With a big HOPEFULLY she will say yes and we will start fresh. What do you think?

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Starting all over is a good idea but I would go for things that you know your wife would enjoy rather than giving her flowers that you know she hates

You are married to her and you know what she likes. Make good use of that knowledge to give her the best experience of her life.

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I think your missing the point. If she throws them away directly after recieving them it will be fine, hopefully they will serve my purpose and thats to throw her off a bit and add a little more mystery, not to be a gift from me. I am doing and giving her things she likes and enjoys but that is very little now so as not to push her to hard. I am climbing the ladder and right now its a little tipsy. Scratch that, its a lot tipsy.


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