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#1679479 06/13/06 06:10 AM
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I woke up at 3:00 a.m. this morning with insomnia, it is sooo rare I get insomnia so I should just consider myself lucky. Of course I did what I shouldn't do...."If I fall asleep now I'll get 3 more hours of sleep....now 2 1/2 more...now 1 more....heck might as well just get up!" I think we all hate that. I just think of all the days, today I need to be on top of game so much and with less than 5 hours of sleep it just isn't going to happen.

Anyway, good morning to any other insomniac.

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The secret to happiness is wanting what you already have. ~anonymous
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I woke up at 3:00 a.m. this morning with insomnia, it is sooo rare I get insomnia so I should just consider myself lucky.
OK, I could write the same post. What happened at 3 am this morning? I never get insomnia, so this was really bizarre. Good thing X files was on TV. It can't be a coincidence.


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Newly, I'd say that's very strange.

BTW, I read your thread about the court date during my "non sleep" moment. Have you heard yet?

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The secret to happiness is wanting what you already have. ~anonymous
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I suffer chronic insomnia, aggrivated by hyperthyroidism that isn't yet treated. My lifesaver has been St. John's Wort taken at bedtime. After two weeks on it, I slept like a baby for the first time in YEARS. Its worth a shot if you're struggling with sleep.


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Anyone try melatonin?

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My mom is on it. Loves what its doing for her. She's sleeping through the night after YEARS of insomnia.


Burned-out W, 41, ENFJ married to INTJ. Blender family of 7 years w/3 teens. H has been injured/ill and in college for 6 years. Co-parenting for 11 years w/XWH who married A #4 of 5.
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I use Valerian root. And you can take that with most meds, including most ADs


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Thanks Anna. I heard back yesterday from the court. No change. His motion was denied. In fact, they just seemed to photocopy the preliminary and handwrite in a new date.

It's frustrating now because X is on a kick to give DD8 herbal medicines. He thinks she's flawed. I think she has an A** for a father which contributes to her anxiety.
There's no middle ground.


It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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although I rarely have insomnia, my son has it often I may try some of these suggestions.

Tonight I had a swim meet with older son. it's 10:48 p.m. here and I feel wide a wake after timing for over 4 hours! I have a feeling I may have trouble tonight sleeping. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

Anna


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The secret to happiness is wanting what you already have. ~anonymous
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Full Moon was on 6-11-06. Some say it has no impact on humans. But, it certainly has an effect on tides. And we humans are made up of a lot of water...........

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I sleep 6 hours average and wouldn't mind to get insomnia from time to time, to finish all I want for the day. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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I am new at the boards. I have been taking Melatona for about 5 years (3 mg)....and it has helped tremendously. I occasionally have those nights where the ceiling looks at me....but not like it used to be. As we age....Melatona depletes from our system....and Melatona is a natural substance in your body. Good Luck.

LoveinHim #1679491 06/24/06 01:22 AM
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Well for a person who doesn't get insomnia often, this week is the exception. Twice! I was asleep tonight as soon as my head hit the pillow but my YS woke me up around midnight because he "heard something" now I can't sleep and of course he's snoozing away...

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I agree on the Melatonin. Unlike a sleeping pill you don't feel sluggish the next day.


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Separated on Sept. 1, 2006
Divorced June 2007

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