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Maybe it had to do with raising 3 kids together. We will be married 30 yrs tomorrow. Maybe I was weak and didn't want to start all over again. Maybe I didn't want to be the one dumped. Or, maybe I was very strong to withstand the repeated infidelity. I just lived it, and learned from all of it. Oh well, it was what it was...is what it is.
I am glad that you have no regrets, Todd. We all have responsibility for your own choices for our own reasons.
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Agree. In my own sitch, I had some extinuating circumstances that helped me to make my decision to move on.
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You got a real "thing" for me don't you? Actually you are quite wrong. You just make lots of controversial posts. That sets you apart just a bit. Besides, how could you have read that? You are supposed to be ignoring me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> After all, it made it past the Justuss edit. I think that indicates that she is in tacit agreement. Don't you think? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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JP,
Thanks. I have no way of knowing for sure. You may be right. I will say that, if it is her intention, it would surprise me if it were a highly developed plan on her part. It might be more of a feeling or motivation. Just as WW had no plans during her A, I don't think she has many now. JMO. Everything will hinge on what happens while she is in Mexico. This will either make us or break us. I feel like I am just throwing the dice. I am just totally at peace about it.
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I see that Trix posted again and I have not read it but, before I do, I want to apologize to you Trix. I am sorry for what I said. I just hit a real trigger yesterday with that thread. I won't go into that more. Anyway I am sorry.
Justuss,
Once again thanks for your kind work. I am sorry I am such a bother to you.
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Where is everyone Pio?
Did you run them off again?
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I am here.
Do I count as "everyone"?
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I e-mailed my manager and told her I had worried all weekend and would appreciate an indication of what our discussion was to be about. It is SO against HR practice to surprise an employee with anything at a discussion and I think that p'd me off as well.
Anyway, I got a waffly e-mail back about wanting me to be able to enjoy my position for which I was a very good fit (yay) but there were also a couple of negative things to discuss.
The tone seemed to suggest they were worried I was getting overwhelmed by events and was not performing as well as I could. Well, duh!!!!
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I was going to say I don't think gemela has a plan but I could be wrong.
She was very foggy when she posted on MB.
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Well, you are part of everyone.
If 2much shows, then we have everyone.
Of course, I am assuming that Head Lice has not yet left for DW. Maybe he is helping poor Lebanon...
Anyway, how are you doing Jen?
I ain't doing so good. Is ain't a word in NZ? It is not supposed to be here. English teachers really hate that word.
Anyway, I belong to another infidelity online community and have been spending way too much time in Just Found Out. The hurt is palpable and contagious unfortunately. I will be grateful for the day when triggers are no longer triggers. Because my STBXW's A went on for so long, there are many triggers including turtles of all things. How does one go through life and never look at a turtle again?
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Ahem. What am I???? Chopped liver? Or are you saying I am not welcome here Todd?
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Please forgive me BigK.
Of course I meant you also.
And also believer. Can't forget her.
I think that is all of the regulars. Apparently if you write lemonman's name in a post in this thread, he will appear. How do you search for your name in a post? Or was it pure luck?
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hahahah
He has damn big ears hasn't he.
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actually you can search for your name in a post.
How insecure would you be to do that.
Wow Lemme check MY name
ROTFLMAO
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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I don't search for my name but I did once and was amazed how many times people mentioned me.
Yes, LEMONMAN, has big ears.
Yes, ain't is used here but not in "polite" company.
I am fine, I think. Not so stressed today but I will wait for tomorrow.
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BigK, I'm sorry, but we just don't talk about you in other posts.
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You would have to search BigK, BigKahuna, BigKangaroona, BigGuy.
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LOL Jen
You'd be surprised how many time my name came up. LOL
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You would have to search BigK, BigKahuna, BigKangaroona, BigGuy. Wiseass. When is Rob going to call me again?
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