Here's a tangent from the room mate discussion: Maybe I should start a thread of my own but this one seems to be kinda free wheeling, anything goes so I hope you don't mind if I interject myself.

I haven't spent any time here on this board or the infidelity board even though I believe ex was having either an EA or PA. Because ex never admitted to an affair & I choose not to confirm my suspicions I wonder how this affects my recovery. I don't know how I feel about our attempted "reconciliation" knowing what I know now.

It's likely I'll never know the facts & I wonder if I should consider my suspicions as fact & if this will help my at all.

Any thoughts? Let me know if you'd rather have me off this thread doing all this on one of my own. I came here because I liked the back & forth between the people on this thread.

Todd, you talking about the situation with your son & his gf & your subsequent moving made me wonder if I've ignored something critical in not working more with the idea of infidelity. I can't really say why.

The Bigger,

I had a nice response but when I sent it, it crawled into cyberspace. I don't have the energy to redo; will respond later.

Please stay on this thread. The more, the merrier. I do however take exception to your interjecting yourself here. We don't allow drugs. You really need to kick that habit. BTW, what drugs are you interjecting and how often do you do it?

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ToddAC in a halfway house. Boggles the mind. I bet FGF (French girlfriend) hosed the package to create the problem.

WW and I are in negotiations to send her to Mexico. I think there is a good chance she will go. Keeping my fingers crossed.

nams,

I am not familiar with your sitch. You are divorced and thinking about reconciliation? I have not gotten that far so am only guessing but I imagine that it is a bad idea to obsess over what you think may have happened. Can you plainly tell your ex how you feel?

Err... Pio?

You okay?

How's the vacation?

Are you able to relax at all?

I want to go back to Saudi. Can you imagine that? Anyway, I hope that answers your question.

Can we please get back to French bashing?

Jeez... Believer and her cows monopoly in Oaxaca. DEA fugitive bragging about his interjections and contraterroristical bashing of France.

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While you disamble and disable France until it's Romanic origins may I protect the champagne boxes? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

larousse,

What did you say? Can you please repeat it in English? Hmm... looking at your name, what is your ten twenty?

Hi, pio, Tod and larousse

What are you talking about Oaxaca?

How do you know about this state,is because of Huatulco beaches?

I was last weekend there and is so sad to see the situation there, so so sad... that goberment hadnt done anything and the situation is getting worst.

Tear, I knew you were from Oaxaca, I don't know why.

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piojitos
Im having bad time, in every area in my life.. family, work, and healt..

As a WS I deserve it right? ok I accept it, but I need an advice about how can I help my H to stop blaim me for everything! (I mean his point is clear enough) I deserve problems that Im facing at home as I wasnt concentrated in my duties as a consecuence of my A..

I have another questio for you, how can gemela could help you to stop "caerte mal" I mean every day you sounds that your bad feelings about she are growing... you need some space and vacations far away from her right?

I lived similar situation during my three days vacations wiht my H... He was like "harto" of me..

It was my birthday and he wasnt with me because of work responsabilities... for me that was so so sad.. but I need to figure out how could be my life alone if we finish divorcing..

Ok, the idea is how gemela could help you to avoid those bad feelings about her...

Sorry my spanglish is worst than ever...

You don't Spanglish? Gosh Todd, those microweaves left you with huevos rancheros in your upper floor.

I'm practicing Mexico national sport, rumor, to spread rumors. So if Believer is kindly buying some cows for her friends in Oaxaca, I said some cows were thousands of cows, endangered species for sure. You are not in a Bed and Breakfast, I hope, but in a conspiracy house and Pio is getting a piojito.

To do piojito to someone to scracht, softly, said someone's head.

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Sorry Tear I think I interrupted your post. I'll behave now.

Tear,

You don't deserve anything bad to happen to you. Stop thinking that way. To answer your question, gemela can easily change my feelings by simply making an effort to commit to the M and try to recover. I have also said that I think she needs to have some remorse for what she did. Not because I want to feel holier than thou but because I think she needs to understand that what she did was wrong. Anyway, I have told gemela what she can do. She makes some effort and then goes into idle mode and quits. Gemela could easily make things better. She doesn't seem that interested.

I liked Huatulco. What happened to it? I will say that I prefer the Atlantic to the Pacific. I think the Pacific ocean was badly named.

Regreted, I am not talking about Oaxaca. It is the one drug I don't seem to be taking right now.

larousse,

Are you and tear the same person?

Are you in Mexico?

France?

Quebec?

Pio,

Seriously speaking, I am very confused right now.

Who are these people?

Why are they answering our emails?

Did they hack their way in?

Mushrooms Todd, Oaxaca is famous for it's mushrooms with hallucinogenic qualities.
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Ten and twenty is a metaphor of gun?