Hey, I know! Let's combine Pio's list of technical terms for body parts with our new term for a spa.

The Cocky Doody Manly Men's Facial & Foot Woowoo Center

Sweat Gland Massage Centre. Yuck!!!!!!!

Getting on my liberal feminist high horse here. Did you know that most euphamisms for male genitalia are of the whoopdy do aren't I manly type while most euphamisms for female genitalia are derogatory? Did you also know that it is because men have an innate fear of women?

LOL, we have a lecturer in our Department that lectures in feminist politics. I think it may have rubbed off on me. I picked up a textbook of hers the other day which argued that gender is not defined by chromosomes etc but is "shaped" by parenting. Tried hard not to guffaw as it was a "serious" book but I kept wanting to throw it across the room.

We have a winner!!!!!! (with the addition of sweaty)

I should have added to my post above that "winky" and "peepee" are probably not whoopdy do aren't I manly.

Okay, "woowoo center" has gotten my attention.

ROTFLMAOPMP

I you threw it across the room I wonder if you would have hit her in her woowoo.

Because I was out of bed at 4 I think it's time for me to go to bed & read for 30 seconds then fall asleep.

Here's an example of the trickle down effect as it applies to the price of oil.

I teach pottery at my local community center & for my town's adult ed. I had one person sign up for each class. A friend teaches oil painting & pastels & for the three classes she offers she had two people sign up.

The good news is that I get to sleep in on Sat. now that I won't have that class to worry about. Plus, I'll have more time for my own work. Will people spend the money on gas to come to the gallery to buy it?

Time for bed. Goodnight All.

I was working out in the garage. At some point durint a rep, I cut my hand open on my brand new Haier stainless steel minifridge. All I can think about was "where was my error?".

Piojitos...I kinda like the people from there too <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />.

SO you really think Tear,REgretted,etc, are the same person?
Thats freaking weird.! Why would she do that for? She must be suffering from Multiple personalities, like Sybill!

Good Evening All or if my moon is out then Pio's sun is out so ...Good Afternoon

Nams and Kiwi...great dialogue re: anatomical parts...must admit I've used a few...started out all technical since I'm medical and taught the kids all the right terms but then somehow slipped into the whooopdy lingo...with the girls we use the abbreviated technical version also used as a girls name...gina! There are more terms than germs!

Pio,
Don't fret over the HPV which by your description sounds much more like HSV...if you D G and do find a mate and fall in love, if it is truly love it won't even be an issue...the rate of these is so high that you actually have a better chance of hooking up with someone who has something than someone totally without. sad but true

Gotta get to work on some major projects...check in later

Yes tear/regreted/other name has (have?) admitted to being the same person. She (they) is (are) afraid that BH will find her posts here which is why she dances around deleting posts, changing names, rewriting history.

Have you ever heard of Three Dog Night?

Actually I have never met a Spaniard I didn't like. I do have to confess though that when I was first learning Spanish and ran across my first Spaniard, I thought he was gay. Absolutely true story. I had just never heard "Z" as "theta" before. It is still hard to listen to for me. Don't automatically think they are gay any more though.

Happy Dia del Grito Amigos.

I love Three Dog NIght!! They were Stanley's and mine one of many favorite bands from the late 60s. You like them?

Thats really messed up that Tear made all those different stories up. I mean, whats up with her? What the heck is she gaining by doing that?

Some spaniards appear to be gay but they are not. Its just their demeanor, is different than american people. Antonio Banderas, although he is handsome,sexy, used to have that same demeanor in his spanish movies. Now he is more macho.

I have a question: Do you think if I continue to DJ that I will D G? I think it could happen.

BTW, my heart goes out to bigger and bigK who didn't make the finals of Rockstar: Supernova.

Yes I like Three Dog Night and right now I think that one is the loneliest feeling that I will ever know. However, if G does decide to come back but nothing changes, then I suspect that two could be as sad as one.

Antonio Banderas YUMMY

LOL...One is the loneliest numbers that you ever knew. Two can be as bad as one indeed!!

Well, Pio...I think that you will have to see big changes in Gemela when she comes back. If she has not really analize the situation of what her affair...then things will continue the same. But you really dont want her to come back , so maybe you already have your answer there. I think she has made too many withdrawals in your love bank. You are empty of Gemela..she will need to make a largeeeee deposit, for you to maybe consider her again. But you, by taking care of your daughters continue to deposit in her bank. Maybe just maybe, she is a different woman when she comes back.

Myrta,

I have not given up. I am on haitus. My POV is that G can come back, we can have a M, we can have a happy family but right now that entire responsibility rests with G. I am happyish. I don't get eaten by thoughts of what she is up to while I am at work. She could be pulling a train in Mexico and I don't care. She has already betrayed me. What is a bit more? Her actions are her choices. I can only think about what is acceptable within the context of my family and how I raise my DDs.

I just don't think that G has come anywhere near hitting bottom and she never would have as long as I kept providing the safety net. Only once she hits bottom can she pick herself up and decide how she will move forward.

I do still care for her. She has been my life for 9 years. I don't still love her because she has become nothing that I can love. Could I love her again? Yes. Siempre y cuando she begins to build up her deposits in my love bank. Right now she is running a deficit and I am about ready to call in the loan.

BTW, I really do appreciate your posting. I like your honesty and you have a different way of looking at things that is very refreshing.

nams,

I can see you are remiss in at least two areas:

1) what IS your opinion about Ira... (I mean Western Pakistan)...'s nuclear ambitions and
2) how DOES the nantucket poem go?

Seems to me you are a bit evasive.

Well Piojitos...many FWWs here dont really hit bottom, but they-we realize what we did and we try to make amends for it. But some FWW do need to hit bottom to realize that. Maybe Gemela is in the later bunch. Only she knows whats going on in her mind . She cannot fool herself or can she?

Of course you will care if she is doing something like that again. It will matter a lot, if she deceits you again. I dont think she is that stupid though. She has to know that what she did is completely unacceptable.

What is she doing in Mexico all that time? How does she spend her days? Helping her parents? going out with friends?

I tell you, recovery is really really hard. If there is only one participant is twice as hard!! Gemela really has to put herself in gear, if she wants you,the girls, the marriage, all at once. Otherwise is a lost battle.

Myrta

I don't know what G does in Mexico. Since she is staying with SIL, SIL's OM and MIL, I expect she gets up late, piddles around helping MIL in the kitchen. Maybe does a little cleaning, spends days chatting away, nights drinking beer and not much else.

I doubt she is seeing anyone in front of MIL. OTOH, maybe OM did go to Mexico and they are shacked up together some place. I doubt that because OM could not survive in Mexico. I just don't think he has what it takes.

Oops small crisis. I just got a call from DD2. She was bawling and I could not understand what she was saying. I finally got her calmed down and understand that DD1 told her she had a boyfriend and DD2 says she doesn't have one. I told DD2 that DD1 was just pushing her buttons and that she did NOT have a boyfriend. That seems to have calmed her down.

KiwiJ,

I saw you standing up for me on regreted's latest thread. That is twice now. I think you are setting a bad precedent! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

BTW KiwiJ,

My DDs still ask me why I have a "colita" (tail) and they don't. They are fascinated that I can stand up to pee - so much so that they try to emulate the behavior - never with the best results.

LOL, I thought that myself. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I thought hmmmm, he's a big boy he can probably stand up for himself. I just got so MAD.

Myrta, nice to "see" you.