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stph20 #1690558 09/25/06 10:57 PM
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Because you are so young. What makes you think you are old.

Okay this might make you a bit more mature but that is probably a good thing. But old? You have a loooooong way to go.

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How can you go into recovery with zero expectations?


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Terrific. Now I have the added burden of being responsible for Pio's recovery.


If you can't stand the heat, stay off MB. Besides, I think you will manage the load somehow.

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How can you go into recovery with zero expectations?


You can't. I never said anything about R. That could be a LONG way off. I don't know.

piojitos #1690562 09/25/06 11:00 PM
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Because you are so young. What makes you think you are old.

Okay this might make you a bit more mature but that is probably a good thing. But old? You have a loooooong way to go.

I know I'm young, but I'm almost 30 and like I said, we should be getting ready to start our family and if we get divorced, I might never get that chance. And I don't want to have kids with anyone but him. I didn't want kids period, until I met him.

I'm just confused!! And tired.


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How can you go into recovery with zero expectations?


You can't. I never said anything about R. That could be a LONG way off. I don't know.

Then I missed something and now I'm really confused...


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stph20 #1690564 09/25/06 11:02 PM
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Why are you laughing at me? This is making me feel very old!

**wiping away tears**

Stph, Pio and I are both a lot older than you. Heck, everyone on this thread is older than you. Wow I have clothes older than you.

Bwhahahahah


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stph20 #1690565 09/25/06 11:02 PM
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Am I the youngest one here?


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stph20 #1690566 09/25/06 11:03 PM
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I'm not that young... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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stph20 #1690567 09/25/06 11:06 PM
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Sheesh - I've almost been MARRIED longer than you have been alive

**Still Laughing**


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It's OK Stph - we like having you here. Just don't talk about how old you are.


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bigkahuna #1690569 09/25/06 11:08 PM
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OK,OK, I get it, I'm the baby of the group. You can quit laughing at me at any time now. I take back what I said, I'm a young sprite with my whole life ahead of me. Sheesh, I should go back to my own thread for all the abuse I've been getting...


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stph20 #1690570 09/25/06 11:14 PM
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Stph - toughen up baby. Like I said it's nice having you around here. We like you. Don't be so damn thin skinned. Here take this cyberhug (((Stph))) Does that feel better?


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piojitos #1690571 09/25/06 11:16 PM
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Can y'all please post in English? I am so confused.


And that would make a difference because....?

LMAO. No defense.

stph20 #1690572 09/25/06 11:16 PM
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stph20, they are being very rude to you.

I mean that guys, do you know how annoying it is to be called "young"? It's patronising and it's rude.

stph you ARE the baby of the group, you are the same age as my son and I'm afraid we are all quite a bit older than you. As you can see by my sig line I'm 52 and I'm not even the oldest here.

I'm aware that your feelings are just as intense as anyone else's on here and so should the guys be.

stph20 #1690573 09/25/06 11:18 PM
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Sheesh, I should go back to my own thread for all the abuse I've been getting...


Just pay attention to what they do to ME. You haven't SEEN abuse yet.

Just remember - we post because we truly care about you.

And we ALL have our whole lives ahead of us. Some of our wholes are just going to be shorter than others. Oh well...

piojitos #1690574 09/25/06 11:20 PM
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Abuse you? When? Just show me one example....?

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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Good point KiwiJ.

I think we are trying to be positive but I see your point. The pain is the same. We all know it.

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Thank you Jen, at least somebody understands.

BTW, bigkahuna, don't get defensive, I was just kidding with you! But thank you for the hug, I do feel better! No one's given me a cyber hug before! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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piojitos #1690577 09/25/06 11:21 PM
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OK Jen. I'll go stand in the corner now.

Stph - really didn't intend any offense. We are all equals here. Well except for Todd and Pio that is.


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