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When you grounded me from relationship talk, does that mean ALL relationship talk? All relationship talk Stef. What you need to do is make home a warm and inviting place for your husband. You wast to meet his EN's - what are they BTW? You do NOT want to be having R talks and pissing him off - I can't say it plainer than that. He is in an active affair Stef. You are wasting your time tal;king about your relationsgip and pissing him off and withdrawing even more love units. You cannot afford these withdrawals. Your account in his love bank is almost empty.
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Pio was only pulling his leg of course It made me mad. Sorry. I know it was only a joke. It still made me mad. I'll get over it.
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Pio was only pulling his leg of course It made me mad. Sorry. I know it was only a joke. It still made me mad. I'll get over it. Why did it make you mad? It's really OK!
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When you grounded me from relationship talk, does that mean ALL relationship talk? All relationship talk Stef. What you need to do is make home a warm and inviting place for your husband. You wast to meet his EN's - what are they BTW? You do NOT want to be having R talks and pissing him off - I can't say it plainer than that. He is in an active affair Stef. You are wasting your time tal;king about your relationsgip and pissing him off and withdrawing even more love units. You cannot afford these withdrawals. Your account in his love bank is almost empty. Damn, I was too busy at work to do the questionnaire. I'll do it tomorrow..at the very least, I'll have it done by the time I talk to him next, I promise! I don't want to withdraw love units, I want to deposit lots and lots of them! How do I do that? Never mind, I'll do the quiz. My only thought was showing him this site and seeing what he has to say about it, not the forum, because this is my safe haven, but teaching him all this stuff. It's too soon isn't it? I know it. Why can't I do Plan B yet?
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Ohhhhh
Meant to say, Eldest son was handed his High School Portfolio by Susie O'Neil
Let's see how long it takes you guys to identify her. LOL
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Stef - you can't do Plan B because so far you have sucked at Plan A
You have to do a credible Plan A before even considering Plan B - do you understand what Plan B is? Plan B looks a lot like divorce - NO CONTACT with WH. You aren't there yet.
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I'm back. Did you miss me in the whole one and half hours I was away. DS got a loan monitor from the computer store. It's 9 inches wide and it's not a flat screen but hey, I'm BACK. Doesn't that thrill you all to bits. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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BTW BigK you really have been suffering from foot in mouth disease lately.
Also, there's a little country not too far away from Australia that also has a giant ozone hole above it.
How's your weather BigK? We're having an unseasonably warm spring.
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yes, it thrill us to bits Kiwi <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> If you daughter is going to see great civilizations I guess she's coming dowm to Perú and México <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Jen - you disappeared for 2 whole days with no explanation but yet you wanna explain about 1.5 hours? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
It is incredibly warm here as well Jen. I was actually referring to that little country too BTW.
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Foot in mouth? I guess I have a warped sense of humour.
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Jen - you disappeared for 2 whole days with no explanation but yet you wanna explain about 1.5 hours Oh yeah <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> BigK, all I can say is that if you'd been a FWS and said that you would now have the wrath of the whole board AND the moderators down on you right now. It's a bit of a no no.
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OK Jen, but my record in this thread and interaction with Stef makes it TOTALLY obvious I was joking.
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I was wondering, is the little country NZ? NZ is big, isn't it? How far is Nova Caledonia from you? You said NZ is pretty far from A I think.
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I know that but it's not a joke in these here parts. Anyway, Steph didn't take offence.
Larousse, I don't think my DD is getting to the REAL countries, just the states.
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Could almost throw a stone from Aussie to NZ. On a clear day you can almost see it (Kidding). It's close. NZ is small and insignificant. Australia is much larger
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Pio I won't pretend to be your Spoken person* again, sorry about that. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Now, I could benefit from a sophisticated, smart, tactful spoken person.
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Larousse, NZ is a VERY little country. It's about 3 hours by plane to Australia and about 3 hours by plane to New Caledonia.
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but but NZ is beautiful, on the other hand Aus has koalas...
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Jen I know how poorly it is received here on MB - I have been around for a while now. If I was in any way serious I would be boiled in oil even as a BS.
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