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lunamare #1692078 10/04/06 11:02 AM
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And what???


Question answered...I think?!


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Well, Luna, I guess we could award you the Nobel Prize for Medicine. And no I don't do stars, I can't even figure out how to do quotes yet. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Nothing else is going to cure Pio, so he'll just have to call out those antibodies. Too bad we can't find some anti-tumor antibodies for Todd. Is that a possibility?? He could play like the tumor cells are the french and summon up his defenses. They say it works for some. The power of positive thinking. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />


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And what???


Question answered...I think?!

I'm pleading the 5th.

He just misses me. He said he thinks about me all the time and misses me. We had a fine evening. Looking forward to tonight.

I'm scared to say more.


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He could play like the tumor cells are the french and summon up his defenses.


If the tumor cells were french, he wouldn't need any defenses - they'ld simply give up on their own at the first sign of a T cell.

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2much,

you are totally missing the point. 3 stars don't bother me. Only one star in particular bothers me. It happens to be the third on. The other two were just fine. I hate the third star like I hate two legs on an insect. I don't know why I hate two legs on an insect but I do. I like insects themselves just fine. But if you take an insect with six legs (nothing wrong so far) and add two legs to it, you get an arachnid and I absolutely detest arachids. So, as far as I can tell, it is the two legs. This is the way I hate the third star.

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Well DD1 scored two goals and her team won 3-0. DD2 have three saves and her team won 1-0. I hope someone got the video. I'll rip and burn tomorrow and see what I get.

Tomorrow we try out the new softball bats and gloves and maybe the new golf clubs.

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I'm pleading the 5th.

He just misses me. He said he thinks about me all the time and misses me. We had a fine evening. Looking forward to tonight.

I'm scared to say more.


stph20,

...you are listening to what he SAYS. ...and a WS will say what you want to hear...to get what he wants...

Please look at what he is DOING...and are you OK with that?

BTW....many of us fall off the horse.... nothing else to do but get back on it!


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...and I guess in Australia....that might be kangouroos...

....uhmmmmm...not sure one rides them ...maybe one needs to be carried....in the pouch....LOL!


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lunamare #1692086 10/04/06 11:56 AM
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Maybe BigK could straighten us out on that point!


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...you are listening to what he SAYS. ...and a WS will say what you want to hear...to get what he wants...

Please look at what he is DOING...and are you OK with that?

BTW....many of us fall off the horse.... nothing else to do but get back on it!

He did tell me that he misses me and he thinks about me all the time, but he wasn't after anything. And the reason I believed him when he did say it is because of his actions the past couple of days. He called me Sunday, for no apparent reason, and not even a good excuse, he asked me to lunch on Monday, flirted and teased the whole time we were together and he followed me around like a puppy dog here last night, just to be in the same room as me and talk to me.

Are those good actions??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Now I'm scared he didn't mean it. But he doesn't have anything to gain by saying it, since he's the one wanting divorce...I don't know.

BigK has his work cut out for him later, between me and the kangaroos!! I hope he's prepared himself!


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I'm Plan Aing to the best of my ability and I think it's working!! I'm showing confidence and independence...he might actually be noticing!


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Congrats to your DD's for winning their games Pio!!

That's a great day!


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If the tumor cells were french, he wouldn't need any defenses - they'ld simply give up on their own at the first sign of a T cell.

Yeah, I guess you have a point. I wish it were that easy.


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BTW....many of us fall off the horse.... nothing else to do but get back on it!


falling off and getting back on are normal part of the process...it is beating a dead horse that you have to be wary of

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you are totally missing the point. 3 stars don't bother me. Only one star in particular bothers me

Call me crazy...many others have...but...perhaps the stars are subconscious symbols of marriage partners and the real aversion to the 3rd star is that it throws off, invades and imbalances the pair? Would 4 stars be better?????

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Are those good actions???


Is he not also seeing OW? I believe that would also be considered an ACTION ...and is this OK with you?

Personally, I chose to be in PLAN B because I did not want to be part of triangle... if it was up to WS...he was perfectly happy to have two women cater to his needs!

...see what I mean?


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falling off and getting back on are normal part of the process...it is beating a dead horse that you have to be wary of


2much....excellent point!


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yep,

First hand experience...don't know what to expect...I drew some lines in the sand today and am trying to defend them...we'll see what the next few days bring...at least I am being honest with myself and H, regardless of how it makes him feel/act...I am tired of holding back out of fear...let the cards fall where they may...I am ready

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I drew some lines in the sand today and am trying to defend them...we'll see what the next few days bring


I am a bit slow, 2much.... are we talking about setting clear 'boundaries' and if broken, clear 'consequences'?

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...I am tired of holding back out of fear...let the cards fall where they may...I am ready


...uhmmm...and what would that be, 2much?


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lunamare #1692097 10/04/06 01:33 PM
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perhaps the stars are subconscious symbols of marriage partners and the real aversion to the 3rd star is that it throws off


This is very perceptive of you, 2much.... personally, I have developed and aversion to....TRIANGLES!


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