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piojitos #1692558 10/06/06 02:05 AM
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I am sorry if i have depressed both Pio and Todd.


Sorry to disappoint you FC but you have not influenced me one way or the other. I actually believe you are more typical of a WW/FWW. ToddAC and I argue this a lot - way before we ever heard of you.

We do?

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You can't really help any of us if you don't believe in what we believe in or in what we're doing or at least done it!


I have to disagree with this. I think FC is giving me insight into the mind of my WW in her own way. Nobody says MB is for the successful and the newly betrayed to be helped by them. We run the spectrum. It is give and take. Anyway, I like hearing FC's perspective because, to be quite honest, I hear a lot about the FWW who now realizes she was insane and will do anything for her M and is totally in love with BH and I just don't always buy it. I'm not calling anyone a liar. It is just that I was blindsided by the one closest to me. Maybe I have trust issues now. But sometimes I think people post on MB just to conform. They end up deceiving themselves. Excuse me for pointing fingers but Suzet with a star was exactly that way. I won't repeat her story but it is well documented.

FC presents the exact dilemma all BS's face. We wonder whether WS comes back to the M out of desire or necessity. The WS is clearly a proven liar. Why can't they be lying about wanting the M?

I don't mean this to sound harsh although I think it is coming out that way. I hope FC sticks around. I am certainly not going to put much creedence in her marriage saving advice but I am very interested in her perspective on the thought processes of the wayward side.

Quiet honestly I have often been tempted to surf the TOW site but I have been afraid because I have seen what it does to Stan-ley when he spends too much time there.

piojitos #1692560 10/06/06 02:16 AM
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Well I got tired of the owl, the moustache, the whatever so I decided to post a more recent photo. Here is me today cutting and cleaning. hen we went through the storage, I found a bunch of old running clothes and ... well ... what can I say. I figure it Rob can do it, I can do it. This is in honor of Rob.

pio getting the garden ready

I'm getting fat. I'm going to start running again.

piojitos #1692561 10/06/06 02:23 AM
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Hahahahahaha Pio. That's great. Pink Shorts and all.


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piojitos #1692562 10/06/06 02:25 AM
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But sometimes I think people post on MB just to conform. They end up deceiving themselves. Excuse me for pointing fingers but Suzet with a star was exactly that way.
Well Pio, I'm glad to see you think I'm not like this anymore. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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That's great. Pink Shorts and all.


THEY'RE FADED RED!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

Suzet* #1692564 10/06/06 02:27 AM
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I wouldn't count on it Suzet*


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piojitos #1692565 10/06/06 02:33 AM
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That's great. Pink Shorts and all.


THEY'RE FADED RED!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

So, do you also write poetry?

piojitos #1692566 10/06/06 02:38 AM
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THEY'RE FADED RED!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

Ah. Denial. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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bigkahuna #1692567 10/06/06 02:38 AM
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You're entitled to your own opinion BigK.

Suzet* #1692568 10/06/06 02:40 AM
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Yeah, laugh it up when you think I'm not here.

DS and Rob have decided to watch a horror movie so here I am again.

OMG, you're wearing bright pink girly shorts.

OMG, OMG, OMG

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Like Calling a house that is a disaster area a Renovators delight. Calling Pink shorts Red. LOL.


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bigkahuna #1692570 10/06/06 02:41 AM
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Not to be outdone, here is a pic taken of me recently. Kindly ignore the chipmunk cheeks.

ToddAC "The Chipmunk"

ToddAC #1692571 10/06/06 02:42 AM
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LOL Todd. I thought Larousse had a nice photo.


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Er, Todd, that isn't a chipmunk.

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Pio, it doesn't matter how much heavy manly tool equipment you have hanging off you - you are wearing GIRL'S shorts.

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Can I rephrase all that?

KiwiJ #1692575 10/06/06 02:51 AM
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Er, Todd, that isn't a chipmunk.

Jen, short naps are great aren't they?

No, I am an owl with chipmunk cheeks. So says Larousse. Not the cheeky part; just the owl part.

I will post a real picture of me when the chipmunk goes away. And you can bet your sweet bippy I will not be wearing pink, or red, shorts.

I may publish some poetry however....

ToddAC #1692576 10/06/06 02:53 AM
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WHy would you want to rephrase that Jen. It's true.


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Pio, it doesn't matter how much heavy manly tool equipment you have hanging off you - you are wearing GIRL'S shorts.


Sorry. Back in the early 80's those shorts were all the rage and the are in fact men's jogging shorts. I also have fluorescent green and orange. I don't wear any of them any more though. I do think that all fashion trends are cyclic. They'll be back PRETTY soon.

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