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larousse #1692978 10/08/06 02:30 AM
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Sorry Todd I was rude.

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Are you bragging Todd? That means that you are a highly circulated...

I have many regrets about my earlier escapades larousse. Fortunately, they go back many years ago and my conscience has healed greatly. If I do D my WW, I would be completely different these days. Okay, not completely different, but, well, you know what I mean, right? These days one has to be because of all the STD's in circulation.

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Todd, I'm really worried about your preferences... Besides the up mentioned there is butter and fire. Are you sure you are not posting from Belleveu?

I am slow tonight. What is Belleveu?

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Sorry Todd I was rude.

Hey larousse,

I have very thick hide. I don't consider anything you posted to be rude.

ToddAC #1692981 10/08/06 02:34 AM
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I think it's a mental hospital isn't it?


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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bigkahuna #1692982 10/08/06 02:38 AM
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I think it's a mental hospital isn't it?

Of course, Bellevue, Washington is also the location for Microsoft's headquarters I believe. I wasn't sure if she was saying that I was a mad genius like Bill Gates or simply mad as in Bellevue Hospital in NYC.

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BK don't tell him that. He thought he was in the Ny's Ritz.


I read that in UK are trying to give shots of anti papiloma virus to girls since the 13th years old.

larousse #1692984 10/08/06 02:45 AM
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BK don't tell him that. He thought he was in the Ny's Ritz.


Okay, I am slow tonight. I don't understand this.

larousse #1692985 10/08/06 02:46 AM
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I thought the Microsoft HQ was in Redmond.

BTW on Bill Gates's wedding nite, his bride was reported to remark "Now I know why you called your company Microsoft"


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bigkahuna #1692986 10/08/06 02:47 AM
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I'm slow too Todd - I don't understand it either...


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bigkahuna #1692987 10/08/06 02:55 AM
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It may be in Redmond. Redmond, Bellevue, not much difference.

ToddAC #1692988 10/08/06 03:35 AM
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Looking at the photos of bigK's boys, I knew I had seen one of them before (the one without the tie) and I now realize it was on "Growing Up Gotti".

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I have ripped and edited 20 minutes of soccer video down to 6 minutes and then converted it to MPEG4 and WMV. I am now squeezing down the MPEG4 to both a high bandwidth and low bandwidth version and I will upload them tonight and post the URLS in my sig line.

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I think it is very sweet of you Pio to try to entice Todd back by talking of tools & doing some french bashing.

Yeah...right.....some of it 'too close for comfort' for me...LOL...but it's all for a good cause!

Now, Pio...did you miss my question...or are you just trying to 'duck' it"!

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I wish she weren't coming back.

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Pio,

Tell me....what do you see as your biggest challenge with G's return?

Now...keep in mind...I am reading along....10 pages back!

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ToddAC #1692991 10/08/06 07:39 AM
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Okay I think I figured out which was the bad word and I changed it. Man you people have one-track minds down there. Must be all the blood in your heads from standing upside down. Speaking of, where is BigK anyway?


Alright.....guess it's going to be me who will ask the obvious.....as we could always use a good laugh......what WORD are we talking about, please?


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Well I admit I never saw the question. I can't always keep up with the thread.

You need to reword the question because I don't see any challenge at all with gemela coming back. There is no downside risk (I have nothing to lose). I just don't see any "value added". How is her coming back going to improve my life? I just don't see the benefit to me for her coming back.

Do I want to get sucked back into that quagmire of distrust? Wondering what she is doing behind my back? She can be doing all those things in Mexico quite easily but I don't care. It is when she does them here that it bothers me. I don't know why that would make a difference but it does. I don't feel like I am married right now.

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Alright.....guess it's going to be me who will ask the obvious.....as we could always use a good laugh......what WORD are we talking about, please?


I made a new thread for TuckTummy and said I was "rooting" for her. Apparently "rooting" is a slang term for SF in the lower half of the planet.

ToddAC #1692994 10/08/06 07:53 AM
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The maggot, entitled and selfish as ever he was, told son that next year he is coaching that team so he will have to change clubs next year. Very hard for him. He has played in that club since he was 9.


I don't know how you do it, BigK, to keep your composure around him...

This kind of behaviour is sooooo typical of WSs...just the words 'entitle and selfish' right now get my blood boiling! GRRRR! ...the least he could do is coach another team... and do some 'damage control' and not let your son PAY for his choices..... but then that would have meant he would have been 'considerate'...wouldn't it?

Good thing I am on the other side of the world...as I wouldn't be much help to you..... actually, you would have another problem on your hands..... trying to hold LUNA back from ********** his a******* . I suspect some 'transferring' is coming into play here...... as I have never met the scoundrel! GRRRR!


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bigkahuna #1692995 10/08/06 08:04 AM
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I think it was just a phase she was going through.


Yes it was...BigK.... unlike Todd, who will have very few body parts left very soon!

...when anyone here is sending me off to take a 'cold shower' I will not take it personal... it will just tell me what THEY have on their mind....LOL!

BigK....I love your laugh!


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bigkahuna #1692996 10/08/06 08:10 AM
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It violates the spirit of TKO. Of course, if I am begged.....


Alright....let us be the judge of that.... if so, then we will let you know it...and you can take it back!

(Now....since I am behind ALL THE TIME.....don't ask me to scroll up.....I just need to keep scrolling down... and catch up!)

....I am basically doing a 'play by play'...... a day later... when the score is already on the news!


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lunamare #1692997 10/08/06 08:22 AM
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Good moringin/evening all,

Caught up on my reading

Sorry Todd to disappoint you on the accuracy of your predictions...it's ok weatherpeople make inaccurate ones all the time and still get paid, you may be able to continue it as a hobby

Nams, you mentioned being the poster girl for "what not to do"...I thought I had the patent on that one! Good to know I have quality company

Larousse...LOL soooooo hard at your "pink secret"

BK, first your boys are gorgeous and look like models...Pio had a hysterical comment cuz your one son does look like one of the Gotti boys...both you and your wife are lookers as well.

I don't know how you restrain yourself around OM either. B/c of the # of OW I have basically transferred my negative feelings toward all OW to WH since I blame him and not them (except for the 1 he had long EA with that visited my home and stayed in my home several times all the while...I loathe her and would love to tell her what I think but don't think it would be productive). I actually have gifts that she bought me that I use daily...probably not very therapeutic

I have joined Stph20 in the no SF...WH is clueless on why

Luna, you are so funny...I'll team up with you to kick BK's maggot's butt...I'll just envision OPs and WH while we are doing it...oh, I forgot...unless we win an all expense trip down under we'll have to do it virtually...boo-hoo

Pio, sounds like you have things pretty much in control. I'm jealous...I wish WH were in Mexico, I think I would find peace with him gone just like you did with G...I don't care what he does as long as he is not here but it is way to disrespectful to do it in my face and that is where I'm at

WH is trying to play the "if I don't address it, it doesn't exist game"...so last night after he had been out wherever for 5 hours he comes home and expects me to do just that...act like there is nothing wrong and try to get some SF...consistent refusals by me...he kept asking why and was joking with me...I didn't take the bait by getting upset or answering...if I had provided the reason it would only have ended up in a big blow-out

I had an idea that you guys may be interested in...

I read all of these posts and wonder how is it that there are so many people here who sound like they are the whole package and have so much to offer but are in this abyss of misery...I know we're all human and no one is perfect

Am I the only one thinking why can't my spoude be like BK, Todd, Pio, Kiwi, Nams, Larousse, Luna and all the other wonderful people here...how did I get hooked up with the king of disappointment????

Soooooooooooo...I was thinking to keep it real maybe we could all list the top 3 challenges we have had in our M's or relationships that stem from our behaviors or personalities and how we have tried to improve in those areas...anyone in???

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