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nams #1693138 10/09/06 07:55 AM
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Actually it's a holiday here too. The very important Columbus day. It's one of my kids favorites because they get to spout off at school the facts about Columbus being a brute. Used to make the teachers cringe given the way Columbus is portrayed in schools. But they have been doing a better job lately of presenting a more balanced picture.


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larousse #1693139 10/09/06 08:00 AM
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'mornin larousse! I want thanksgiven to me please. Sorry larousse I couldn't resist. It's actually Thanksgiving.

Gacias por mi cumpleanos deseo.

I'll bet I butchered that.


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OOH, OOH, BigK sponsor a trip for me too, Luna & I can come together. Larousse, you meet us up here & we can all go! Yipee! A trip!


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nams #1693142 10/09/06 08:07 AM
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Hmm. That is so true. My wife's affair had a high level of emotional attachment. She felt that "buzz" with OM she used to feel with me.


I am glad you caught it in time to do something about it....BigK...so glad!

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Gawd Luna, that's the same thing ex wants, the newsness of infatuation to last for ever. He said to me once during one of our fruitless discussion about why a third person can't be part of a marriage, I want the kind of love that I think of the person ALL day, can't wait to come home, where all we do think about is each other. I wanted to punch him in his stooopid, dreamy, far off face. IDJIOT!


I think like Nams' WS....my WS was too far deep into A... I also believe it is coupled with a mid-life crisis.....his dad died of a heart attack at 62...when WS was in his twenties... in the last few years WS's older brothers by a few years SURVIVED heart attacks..... I do wonder if A for WS is a way to not have to confront his fears... (you know...an A can keep someone's 'thoughts' quite occupied!)

...his logic was....why invest in recuperating a 20-yr M..... when he can start fresh! (What?!!? ...how fresh can it be....starts out by destroying families and bringing suffering and pain to so many people?!....I tell you... my WS is REAAALLLY out to lunch!

I am soooo glad I am in PLAN B.....and not have to deal with a WS!


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nams #1693143 10/09/06 08:07 AM
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Oh my! I'm afraid, I'm sad, I'm worried...


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nams #1693144 10/09/06 08:10 AM
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How long till she is with you PIO?


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larousse #1693145 10/09/06 08:10 AM
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Hmm Luna - I might have to sponsor you on a trip downunder...


Anytime...BigK...just not in November.... I will be busy with .... SF...LOL!


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lunamare #1693146 10/09/06 08:13 AM
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Well 11PM, wife home any minute. I don't need to wait till November - or even tomorrow!!


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bigkahuna #1693147 10/09/06 08:14 AM
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A trip to see koalas?

Yipe!!!!!!!!!!!!

I mean a trip to straight that bully XOM of course.

Pio you are too talented to be engieenier.

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How long till she is with you PIO?


...think she's on her way there, BigK.


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nams #1693149 10/09/06 08:14 AM
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Yeah, the start fresh thing. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

ex got a big dose of reality this past weekend when he had to make work some very demanding logistical issues with two of the boys & make a class reunion event with gf mostly without my helping out. I did have two boys stay with me Fri. night & one I brought to meet a bus at school early Sat. morning for a cross country track meet. Though it did make ex's life easier I did for my boys' comfort not his.

Are you worried about Pio?


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nams #1693150 10/09/06 08:16 AM
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STOP THAT Big K!


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lunamare #1693151 10/09/06 08:16 AM
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Well 11PM, wife home any minute. I don't need to wait till November - or even tomorrow!!


Bye, BigK...you sure know how to rub it in...LOL!


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lunamare #1693152 10/09/06 08:17 AM
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Are you worried about Pio?


Yes, I am.


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nams #1693153 10/09/06 08:18 AM
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Oh, did I get Pio's meaning wrong? G is not there yet?


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nams #1693154 10/09/06 08:18 AM
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Wake up Todd.


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lunamare #1693155 10/09/06 08:20 AM
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Signing off...need to get a few things done....


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lunamare #1693156 10/09/06 08:45 AM
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OK, I re-read Pio's very creative missive & I took the part where he refers to his life changing with one phone call to mean a current, or very recent phone call which indicated G was still on the WW path.

I'm sure it was my reading Pio not you wonderful writing.


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nams #1693157 10/09/06 08:54 AM
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Since Todd won't wake up, BigK is "with" his W & nobody else is here to play I'm off. Good day to all.


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