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The Bigger,
How are you? Hope you are well. I recall early in my days at the other site, you hit me upside the head with a 2x4. It did me a world of good. Initially, it hit me as: WTF is worng with him? Can't he see that I am in pain? I read your post over and over and it finally sunk in.
I hope Pio does the same. I have sent a couple of blisters via email but he has ignored them. I truly hope he will heed your advice.
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Those lopsided hugs
(((somebody or other))))))))))
{I didn't want to use anyone's name lest I hurt someone's feelings)
Those are those one armed hugs where you stand beside someone, put your arm around them so that your hand is on their opposite shoulder and pull them in against your ribs.
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What happens if you cyberhug one side more than another? Astronomers will declare that Pluto is no longer a planet.
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Maverick's re-engaging, sir.
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Very pleased to hear that Pio.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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BS (me)-26
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0 kids
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status-working on it
"Sometimes, I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough...but I'll stand back up."
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Pio - It sounds like you are now the biggest threat to the marriage. That often happens. Please stop talking about divorce. If it is very difficult, try promising yourself you won't do it for a month, and see how things go.
Gemela needs to know that she CAN recover the marriage and have her rightful place by your side back.
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I'll do anything to get the Three Muscatels off my back. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Where is D'artagnan anyway <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
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Where is D'artagnan anyway? I guess I spoke too soon....
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"Maverick's re-engaging, sir."
Bogey at 2200. Roll and commence MMC.
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haven't you heard? There is no bogey man. He died.
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My friend,
You have been in SA much much too long.
Do you know what MMC is?
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Sorry no I don't know what MMC is. It is the ticker symbol for Marsh McLennan Co which I see is slightly off in trading.
Has anyone heard from Myrta? I wonder how she and Stan-Ley are doing.
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MMC = Miraculous Marriage Counselor
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FWIW, yesterday and today are the most hopeful I have been for my M since Dday. WW appears to be saying and doing all the right things. She knows it is her responsibility to reestablish trust and she knows she is on a zero-tolerance policy. I need to just give this time and work toward learning to love her again.
I refuse to let either of us get complacent though. We have to keep following the four rules.
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Okay cenicienta, That's over an hour spent on MMC. Hardly indicative of ADD. I am beginning to suspect that...suspect...that......what was I going to say? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
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Hyperfocus on a creative, stimulating task....
Besides, I'm doing it in the breaks from working on my D's birthday party invitation
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But, you seem to want me to quit. And I'm on a roll..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> Monthly Menstrual Cramps Menopause Meltdown Condition Minnie Mouse Consortium Male Mental Collapse Monday Morning Cornerback Maybe Meshould Cwit <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Besides, we have enough dogs living in my neighborhood. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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