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piojitos #1696158 11/27/06 07:53 PM
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Luna - Are you SURE you haven't been drinking?


Nope...haven't...not YET....I know...hard to believe...that there's nowhere to go...but DOWN! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Cheeky young lady!

Who....me?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />


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"Sometimes, I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough...but I'll stand back up."
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I sure would like to know why WH is an hour late getting homr from work and hasn't called me.....trying to stay calm here.


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Call OW's BF Stef. Find out where she is.


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BigK...how long have we been friends now? You know I freak out everytime you tell me to call him. I have to build up to it, it's not something I can just do.


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ex- BF mails were re directed to my sister mail account, she's a lawyer. She agreed to 'manage' him.


...very good, Larousse!...and how's the morale?


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BigK, everything is fine, besides the fact that now I'm pissed off.

WH had left me a message earlier saying that he was going to have to work late, but my phone is acting up, so it never rang and it didn't tell me I had a message until just now, and it took me forever to access it.

I'm mad because he had to stay late, which is fine, but then his brother showed up at his job and he just decided to go out with him, AFTER leaving me a smart-a$$ message about me not believing him about him working late. He said if I didn't believe him, he didn't care, but that's what was going on.

I just called him back and told him not to be such a smart-a$$ the next time he left me a voice mail. He said he was sorry but he didn't think I would believe him. I said you don't care, so what does it matter? He said, what do you mean I don't care? I said, you just told me that you don't care in a voice mail. He said, OK, I'm going. So I hung up on him.

Why does he have to make me so mad?

Sorry, we can move this to my thread...


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!...and how's the morale?


as long as you don't tempt me with Greek soldiers, I think I can remain pretty moral. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Most of the time I feel liberated and almost happy or happy. I have a hard time facing Christmas because of the plans we had together for this season. Sometimes I do wonder if he cared at all. If he has the same kind of trigers than I do.

His infidelity and relapse was unexpected, very sad. It left me with an acute sensation of impotence because of the distance. That same distance is making easier to detach from him.

Thanks for asking and caring Luna. Sometimes I don't comment about it because I feel that my problems pale in comparision to the situation of many people here.

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Let's move to your thread Stef. Otherwise Pio will kick our asses.


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I reposted on my thread BigK.


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Why does he have to make me so mad?


your "mad" comes from your Taker trying to pull you away from making self-sacrificing Giver damage

Hard to understand, I know... I'll find my old thread that explains it better and you can read (if you want)

the thread is called

Harley is a smart man

I'll go look for it

Pep

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Why does he have to make me so mad?


your "mad" comes from your Taker trying to pull you away from making self-sacrificing Giver damage

Hard to understand, I know... I'll find my old thread that explains it better and you can read (if you want)

the thread is called

Harley is a smart man

I'll go look for it

Pep

Thank you.

I'll read up.


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Todd,

you are too quiet, are you researching about Adult Camps?


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Yeah, where IS everybody tonight (or today, depending on where you are)?


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Let's move to your thread Stef. Otherwise Pio will kick our asses.


Yes please do. I can wipe the floor with you and stph20 but Pepperband is one mean mama and I'm afraid of her. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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Let's move to your thread Stef. Otherwise Pio will kick our asses.


Yes please do. I can wipe the floor with you and stph20 but Pepperband is one mean mama and I'm afraid of her. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

We moved Pio.

I think EVERYbody is afraid of Pepperband! LOL. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

You think you can take us? Hmmph! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


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I ain't messing with Pep either.


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I ain't messing with Pep either.

I can't believe she's actually posting to me.


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Do you think Pep would give me her autography?

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I will be walking it - not running it. Running isn't kind to my body.

Cind...guess you don't mind looking like a 'duck'....is that how you are doing your 'walk'?

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A long way is the equivalent to a 20 hour or so drive.

How often do you see each other, Cind? Is this a 'serious' R?




I am doing my walk the ordinary way. You know, at a speed where I could talk to another member of the team. Not racewalking yet. I don't think my internal organs, knees, and 'frontal lobes' would like me if I were to run 26 miles.

However, I am taking (hula) hooping lessons......I wonder if I could get some other hoopers to train in the next few years and we could pass a hoop among us? Hey, if people can run this thing dressed as Dolly Parton or Elvis Presley, why couldn't a team of hoopers hoop while walking it.

There are full and half marathon divisions. And there are walking and running divisions. So, there are 4 events in one.

As for the seriousness of the relationship, I suppose I better have a serious relationship with Team in Training as I have committed to the program.

[color:"red"]There is a current crisis in Caerlon, however.[/color] [color:"blue"] Last Wednesday, the chiropractor told me I have two bad discs and some bone spurs developing in my neck.[/color] [color:"green"]Their current goal is to keep me out of surgery as long as possible. [/color] [color:"orange"] My left arm tingles badly sometimes. Like, really often. [/color] [color:"purple"] I am having an MRI a.s.a.p. [/color] [color:"red"] I'll take all the prayers you can offer. [/color]

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