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2muchhrtbrk #1697318 01/28/07 12:25 AM
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(((2Much)))

I like your humour even if Pio doesn't appreciate it.

Love the hamster and rabbit stories Pio.

Speaking of SF and rabbits 2Much - I think I might have a solution for you....


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BigK,

That's just gross!

piojitos #1697320 01/28/07 01:44 AM
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Hmm - well that would depend on what you think I mean I guess.


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bigkahuna #1697321 01/28/07 01:48 AM
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piojitos #1697322 01/28/07 03:41 AM
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Too bad Hamsterzilla is gone. I bet I could have found a market for those hamster fur muffs or hats.

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Cinders - I suspect you might find your disparaging remarks about TKO have you on Pio's ignore list.


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bigkahuna #1697324 01/28/07 07:22 AM
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One really great thing about living in Saudi Arabia is that I never ever have to stand in line at urinals.

piojitos #1697325 01/28/07 09:05 AM
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Pio,
No I never once cheated, never really went out too busy with kids, home, work mix. WH accused me for years while he was deep in his 4yr EA of cheating...daily I would have to listen to him make jokes and accuse me of going to work to do XYZ with whomever the name of the day would be...I got to the point of explosion and told him I may as well be doing it since I have to endure the insane behavior and comments...I reassured him that the only man I wanted was him but I did not meet his #1 need during that time mostly due to fatigue, resentment and the fact that I knew about the EA which he continued to deny and blow off...it just put my desire for him way near empty although I loved him dearly. Crazy thing is that I never did have any desire for another man. I went out of my way to avoid any questionable contact with men at work...it was out there I just never took the bait.

You are right he knows I still care but for at least 3 months I behaved indifferent, showed absolutely no interest whatso ever and never initiated any conversation. All of this craziness started after the Christmas SF...he started opening up and wanted to see me more etc He freaked last night and called all night long leaving messages which of course I didn't get until this am thanks to the mute button!

BK, LOL about the rabbit...my neighbor just invited me to a party to shop for the like...gave me a catalog as well!

Pio, I don't get the urinal remark...

2muchhrtbrk #1697326 01/28/07 09:40 AM
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Because they aren't allowed to hike up the white robes.

piojitos #1697327 01/28/07 10:33 AM
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Obviously I am not culturally competent! Thanks for the clarification. What if the robes were black?

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Pio - I totally understand about dumping the hamster. But don't forget that those cute babies turn into incestuous monsters very quickly. Hope that big momma doesn't find her way home!

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Whoopee! I'm good enough to get ignored!

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Regarding the last three posts:

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What if the robes were black?


Then they would be women and still wouldn't need urinals.

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piojitos #1697331 01/28/07 03:42 PM
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What if the robes were black?


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Then they would be women and still wouldn't need urinals.




BBBBWWWHHHHAAAAA!!! Ok so I am SHELTERED...you must admit that is sadly funny...

2muchhrtbrk #1697332 01/28/07 04:39 PM
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Well, I thought the Hamsterzilla line was good.

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I agree. I tend to look for the diversion of humor, sarcasm and blatant avoidance of infidelity-speak that used to dominate TKO...it has subsided significantly and forces me to look at myself or elsewhere...yuck <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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From Penalty Kill

We went through a succession of rodents for a while in order to satisfy my daughter's need for pets; I had the odious task of cleaning the cage. First it was hamsters. Then a guinea pig. The guinea pig lasted the shortest time, probably because we had gotten a cat in the interim. The poor thing was probably stressed to the max by the cat staring at him hungrily in his cage.

We live in the country and get mice in our garage. My H sets the traps. My son empties them. I point out when they are full. The other morning I noticed movement out of the corner of my eye. A mouse had gotten into my office! It was 5am, but I let out several shrieks. My son was first on the scene and helpfully yelled at me to be quiet and to calm down. He then ran upstairs to get his glasses so that he could see the beast. My H came downstairs and nonchalantly trapped the mouse in a tupperware container, let it outside and went back to bed.

My dog was useless throughout the whole ordeal, but she loved the excitement.

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I'm pretty sure I saw the hamster yesterday as we were driving home from work. As we passed by the park, I'm certain I saw a little grey thing raise up and bare its fangs and, if I'm not mistaken, had one paw raised up with its middle claw extended. The hissing was just my imagination as we had the windows up and there's no way I could have actually heard that. I know what you are thinking and, no, I can't be absolutely positive it was the same hamster.

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PenaltyX,

I did send your H a couple of emails. I'm not sure if it will help or hurt. I don't check that email address very much because I am pretty well stocked on cheap Rolexes. I'll try to be more diligent in case he replies. Now if someone would just sell batteries for cheap Rolexes...or 8K gold electroplate touchup kits for cheap Rolexes...I might be more highly motivated to look at my email on a more regular basis.

piojitos #1697337 01/28/07 10:19 PM
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So, tell me this.

What are you supposed to do when both you and WS attend kid sporting events, school functions etc?

Very awkward this eve DD1 game and we both attended, barely spoke and sat miles away from each other. No arguments etc but just plain strained and difficult.

I would not miss any kidstuff regardless of WS plans so do I just pretend that all is well, ignore except for necessity and act like it's all cool?

Just wondering <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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