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piojitos #1697618 05/23/07 12:46 PM
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BigK,
Do you know how is Stef doing? Is she OK?
What about Todd, Pio, Are you still in touch with him? Can you give us any news?

As for recuerdos from his trips, the paintings I like I decided to keep and dissociate them from A(we moved this January so it was a good way to transition). The ones I did not like had to go.

Now, he came last month with a book written by an ex (before we met) and she wrote a book about infidelity around the globe.
Of course I was p... just to know he got the book. Then I was browsing it and I found a paragraph summarizing (in her view but based on what he told her) our marriage, his infidelity, etc.
I was so f... p... I unleashed the dogs on him that night. He even woke up without being able to breath. The book disappeared after that. I don't know what he was thinking!!!???


BS (me) 46
STBX WH 53
Married 2000
DS, 11; DS, 10
1st A: LT D-Day - 02/14/06
2nd A: D-Day - 12/21/11
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Stef is doing OK. I am in touch with her. Needs a good [censored] kicking.


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Wow. Love the book idea. He has really raised the bar on stupidity!

Todd is still menacing mariachis in the greater Fulton County area.

piojitos #1697621 05/25/07 10:19 PM
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Okay BigK. Weekend is over. Can we settle up on the number forgivenesses you need?

I played Monopoly with the family last night. I put a 5 star hotel and casino on Boardwalk. WW couldn't pay the rent. I told her she could make up the rent in other ways. Maybe I am setting a bad example for the DDs. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

piojitos #1697622 05/25/07 11:31 PM
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Well I have to say that the cerveza experiment went quite well. It was a bit of a learning experience. One thing I learned is that it is a good idea to bleed off pressure and then let it set for 24 hours. We also racked the first wine batch. All my life I always thought dregs were supposed to be bad things but dregs aren't half bad after all.

piojitos #1697623 05/25/07 11:34 PM
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Sheesh, Pio, now you can't have your EA with Todd, you're all over BigK.

Disgusting. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

KiwiJ #1697624 05/25/07 11:38 PM
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Yes but my EA with BigK isn't going well. I realize Todd was just a frivolous thing. I'm older and wiser now. Can you help me with BigK? I really want this EA to work out. (Until I find a better one anyway)

piojitos #1697625 05/25/07 11:42 PM
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Maybe you should stop calling him a moron.

And feed him a big texas steak.

piojitos #1697626 05/26/07 12:58 AM
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Okay BigK. Weekend is over. Can we settle up on the number forgivenesses you need?

I played Monopoly with the family last night. I put a 5 star hotel and casino on Boardwalk. WW couldn't pay the rent. I told her she could make up the rent in other ways. Maybe I am setting a bad example for the DDs. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Well you've been blowing sunshine up my [censored] on other threads Pio so let's call it even.

LOL - Bad Example.


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bigkahuna #1697627 05/26/07 01:07 AM
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I thought it was okay to call you a moron as long as I did it in Christ-like love at all times.

I thought it was more or less like "bless your heart...".

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LMAOPMP

KiwiJ #1697629 05/26/07 01:36 AM
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Bwhahahahaha


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bigkahuna #1697630 05/26/07 04:38 AM
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Okay I'm shunning EVERYone....but it is a Christ-like shun....at all times...

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[shun off]

Forgot to mention that I busted out the fountain over the weekend. Nothing like a pneumatic hammer! I'm hoping to convince WW to give it a go this afternoon as now we have to go much deeper in the contrete to deepen the fountain to "fish depth". I can already envision her...sweat streaming down...lock of hair dangling on one side getting in her way...muscles tense and total concentration on her face....women and power tools!....OOOOOHHHH!!!

[shun back on]

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Gotta stop shunning. It's Police Video Saturday on Reality TV. Could it just get any better???

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I GOTTA GET ME SOME SPIKE STRIPS!!!!

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I love power tools. I'm still distressed that I lost custody of the drill press.

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I broke mine when I turned it upside down and tried to turn it into a pottery wheel. It's nams fault. I'm with you. Life just isn't complete without a drill press.

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Piojitos

Thanks for your support on the other thread.


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Amish punk is my way of thinking. Nice visual.

T/J:

Vacation plans are set. Gemela and the DD's set out in a month for Mexico. A month after I go to the USA. I'll fly to Mexico and be with them for one week and then Gemela plies with me to the USA (just the two of us) for one week. So not much vacation time together. Maybe that's a good thing.

But here's the deal. This is my mosquito. I had posted earlier that PB's XGF had been emailing me. I do believe it was her because the email address would have been hard to forge. I never fully accepted her at face value but I always gave her the benefit of some doubt. Anyway, in one of her emails, she said that last she heard PB was in Mexico teaching English. To be honest, I seriously doubted it. I know what life is like in Mexico and how much a foreigner walk-in teaching English would get paid.

But I have to tell you that there has always been some doubt. What if PB were really there? What if he and gemela really had a devious masterplan all carefully coordinated? What if she were really going to see him if even only for a few short weeks?

Well, the short of it is that I don't care. More power to her. The only deal would be that she should not come back. It is funny but I don't stress about it in the least. I know she is going to do what she wants to do. I know if she does run off into the Acapulco sunset with PB that the sooner the better.

The reality is that it won't happen. The truth is that gemela won't give him a second thought.

But I still hear this faint bzzzzZZZzzzZZzzzzZZZZzzzzz...

So what is worse? The buzzing or when it stops?

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