Don't you understand that hamsters can and will kill each other?????? Don't you know it would be very bloody??? It isn't pretty!!!!

Hmmmmmmm...now where's that video camera......?

DDs had some friends over last weekend before they left. We had a lot of the hamsters in solitary in their individual cells. But we found two of those hamsters together. One of the frinds had left them that way. About an hour later, I caught them in a rather compromising position. I'm hoping their both male and were just trying to "help each other out" after having been "alone" for so long. Like Midnight Express.

hmm. unlikely.

Hugz everyone...long time but quick update,

D final beginning of this month

Relocated due to assignment 1200+ miles away from XH

XH living with one of the OW since Oct06

kids doing well and enjoying new environment

learned just how self-sufficient I actually was completing MS, prepping home for sale, moving all of us and starting a new life

things are wonderful except for being lonely on occassion and craving adult interaction which is much better than the alternative

I think of you all and wish only the best for each of you...I often wonder about Todd and hope he is hanging in there

Thanks again to all who helped me do everything in my power to improve myself and my family despite the choices of WH

Miss you all...hugs

(((((2Much)))))

God Bless!!

I'm taking bets on how long it will be before you have more hamsters....

can't you get them neutered or spayed? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

I tell you cinders - putting em in a bucket together will fix the problem.

i know....but, if they insist on attempting to explore each other, maybe they should have their baby makers removed.

My d once got a hamster from a pet store...it was a girl....from the girl container. A few days later, she discovered that her hamster was a 'buy one - get 6 free' deal.

Wow 2much! You are tough! I'm glad you have a new start. I bet the distance and new job help. I understand what you mean about adult interaction. My sister, years ago, quit her job as an executive to become a SAHM when her son was born. She did that for four years - hardly ever leaving the house. Finally when DS was ready for preschool, she got a job as a comptroller of a local energy company. She couldn't have been there more than a day or two when she was in a management meeting. She was sitting very close to the CEO when he accidentally knocked over his cup of coffee. She immediately jumped up, grabbed tissues and starting wiping the coffee off the CEO and said "awww did Mikey have a booboo?". Silence in the room. She had been away from adults WAY too long.

I'm in pain. I've hurt myself pretty badly. Family left last weekend and AW housemaid left to go over to her friend's house to spend the night so I have the whole house to myself.

Well, do you remember Tom Cruise in Risky Business? You get the idea.

Only Tom didn't have to deal with dried up grape juice spills on the tile left behind by DD2. OWWWW!

Houston we have a problem. I had the LAUP all set to go for July 27 but I just learned that The Simpsons movie is coming out that same day. There is no way I can make the appointment since I will be camped out in front of the movie theater starting at midnight on that day. Not sure what to do.

I have a question. We get our Simpsons a little delayed here and I notice they killed off Ned Flanders' wife. What’s the story? Did she get in a salary dispute and force the producers to write her out of the script? That’s too bad if true. I hope she is doing okay. I haven’t seen her in anything since.

And I have another question. I just watched the first episode of The Apprentice LA. I love that show. But how can everyone go for a 16 week job interview and fit everything into one Pullman suitcase? And why don’t the car trunks work? I used to think maybe it was just a taxi thing in NYC but those are pretty expensive cars they are using in LA. Those heavy bags must do terrible damage to the upholstery.

I have NEVER gotten in a cab sitting with my suitcase except when traveling with WW in which case all her bags won't fit in the trunk. But those guys are alone. It's weird.

Well family is now gone a week and I am having a little bit of anxiety. Each night I have a dream where I catch WW in contact with PB. I have not spoken to PBxGF but her little seed about PB being in Mexico does weigh on me.

I'm not so worried that she is indeed in contact with OM. I'm fairly fatalistic about that. What I mean is that she will make her own choices. If she wants to, she will.

What I am worried about is that I may not find out about it.

OTOH, if she has resumed with PB, there will be no way for her to hide it. I know the signs now. But it is five more weeks till I see her.

Today is her Bday. I guess I should call.

DD's will squeal. You will find out if there is contact. I would be amazed if she does contact him.

You should definitely call.

I know all that. I don't know why it bothers me though. If she is contacting him, there is one good outcome - at least I can know for certain that the M is over and I can get on with my life.

I don't really believe she has contacted him. But there is that sniggling little doubt. Just one of the scars of infidelity.

So keep the pine tar and the big lumber handy. I may need a good whacking before this is over.

************JACKPOT*****************

Five 1's!

Too much t/jing of Swade.

I haven't heard any more from the [censored]. Which isn't good. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Pio, she won't have been in contact.

I did get an email about a week ago but I swore on pain of death I wouldn't reveal to anyone what it said. But trust your instinct.

I am.

Well I've always been pretty consistent with those!

If you do, let BigK know so he can let me know. I'm not sure I would post anything here. See what BigK thinks.

BigK, you give out 2x4s and great big whackings? You're just kidding with me.


BigK, email me.