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Resilient #1697938 07/18/07 05:21 PM
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Just a nosey question:

Will GhostRider be posting on the Recovery board soon?

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~5 more posts and I'm at my 7k mark for the year '2007.

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Because I no longer wish to be insignificant.

Because I no longer wish to be the victim.

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I think this is a name change to indicate an enhanced self-perception. That can be a good sign.

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Because I no longer wish to be insignificant.

Because I no longer wish to be the victim.

Really you never were. NEVER insignificant, never.

At times it felt that way during this ordeal, and occasionally may still. And yes, you will be forever changed because of it. But what that means is entirely up to you. I have complete confidence you'll own that. Afterall, you're a pretty smart guy.

I think you and your wife are on your way. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Resilient #1697943 07/19/07 03:34 AM
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Excellent


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
piojitos #1697944 07/19/07 06:22 AM
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Because I no longer wish to be insignificant.

Because I no longer wish to be the victim.

So very glad to see you feeling this way! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> And I agree with all that Jo said...

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

piojitos #1697945 07/21/07 04:35 PM
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GR:

Kinda Hot in the Glass House?

Jus' Wondering...

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Just a guess, but you might try using a freshly baked sausage pizza to tempt him out LG.

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Because I no longer wish to be insignificant.

Because I no longer wish to be the victim.

Neat, and good for you. Great idea on the name change, I like it. Alot. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Me,BW - 42; FWH-46
4 kids
D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006
D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR)
Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007

In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. smile
MarriedForever #1697948 07/22/07 04:46 AM
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LG,

If it makes you feel better to attack my character in a feeble attempt to rationalize your own hypocrisy, feel free. I really hadn't intended to post yesterday but I was shocked when I saw you, of all people, say that OPS had to be contacted. I simply can't believe you even bothered to post on that thread.

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Which thread?

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That should have said the first and primary use of language was creation. Dammit.


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LG,

If it makes you feel better to attack my character in a feeble attempt to rationalize your own hypocrisy, feel free. I really hadn't intended to post yesterday but I was shocked when I saw you, of all people, say that OPS had to be contacted. I simply can't believe you even bothered to post on that thread.

I missed that too Pio. BTW - I like your new tagline too.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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bigkahuna #1697952 07/23/07 01:16 AM
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That should have said the first and primary use of language was creation. Dammit.


<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

What kind of drugs are you on today?

piojitos #1697953 07/23/07 05:28 AM
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OK I'm losing it.

When I said this...

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You know Pio, In the Bible, Genesis Chapter 1, it uses the words "and God said" at the creation of the world.

Who on earth was God speaking to? There was no one for him to speak to.

Which proves conclusively that the primary use of language is communication.

I meant the last sentence to say.....

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That should have said the first and primary use of language was creation.

But give me a break - I ws in an airport lounge waiting for a flight.


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Empty Nesters.
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bigkahuna #1697954 07/23/07 05:57 AM
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Well I'm headed to the airport myself. Now I hope my Vodafone SIM card works in Houston and I hope Pizza Hut delivers to the Hertz Gold Card pickup lot. Imagine if the pizza were waiting for me in the front seat? But wait - who would have paid for it?

Oh well, I still have my dream.

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Have an awesome holiday mate.

((((GR/Pio


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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bigkahuna #1697956 07/23/07 10:17 AM
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I hope you get your pizza Pio, while its still hot.

Safe travels.

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Pio:

Enjoy your trip.

And for this:

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Where is the hypocrisy in advising someone on MB to Expose thier spouse's A to the other person's spouse?

Please, I have something that came up over 1.5 years from Dday, and then you think that I am ? for not calling and having tea with OW H.

Sorry.

But I just wasted the better part of three hours trolling thru your thread.

Do I annoy you because, unlike your WW, I actually recommitted to my M?

Cuz, I don't get it.

Your in the same limbo now as you were a least a year ago.

So, can I call you out anytime you might advise someone to follow MB principles that you will have a happy M?

And you don't?

Although the A for your W appears to be over.

But your still about the same place.

You are humorous.
Have an odd outlook on life.
Actually have a personal history prior to age 18 that is similar to mine.
Coach your kids sports team.
Had to leave MB for a while, but came back.

So, in many ways we are alike.

So. You can jump on any thread where I advise a poster to use the MB principles to expose, and divert it from that to ask if I should be doing that.

Your choice.

I got properly bombed in Feb, and have dealt with it, in my M. You may not approve, but that's for you to deal with, not for me.

And no matter what, I will never be anything but *whatever* to you. And if it wasn't this issue, it would be another one for you.

And, guess what. I'm fine with that.

I have my scarlet letter.

I can show it to you anytime.

Critize me for what I may have done, but don't EVER attack me for advising posters to follow MB principles to break up A's.

LG

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