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#1703620 07/06/06 12:40 PM
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I am 29 years old and my fiance is 31. We have been seeing each other since Oct 2005. We started living together in April and in May he proposed and we are suppose to get married next June. This was the best relationship I have ever had and I have been dating since I was 15 years old. He has treated me so much better and given me so much more respect than anyone ever has. My problem is now he has been accusing me of things that I don't do. He says I lie to him and I don't. He says that I keep things from him and I don't. Anytime an exboyriend calls me (not that its often but sometimes) I tell him the person called if I answered the phone or not and I'm usually right in front of him if I do talk to an ex I do that so he knows there is nothing going on. I try to be as open and honest with him as much as I possibly can but still I get accused of things I don't actaully do I am at my breaking point and not sure how much longer I can do this. I have been in an obsessive relationship before but this is different he has never been a jealous person like when I was with the other guy who WAS obsessive if a guy flirts with me infront of him he's fine he thinks its cute ... if someone comes up and asks me to dance he lets me .. he'll say I know who she's going home with ... that was always one of my favorite things about him that he was confident like that .... but he's always afraid that there is something going on behind his back ..... Is he just crazy or is there something I can do to try to make him trust me.

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My brother in law was going through the same thing last year. When actually his wife was cheating on him. Doing the ol switcheroo. She kept saying the things your husband is saying to you. Eventually someone saw her with the other dude, but my bro in law never would have thought because he was freaking out just like you wondering why is this person doing this to me. Not saying he is cheating but just giving my input. keep us posted.


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