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#1717569 07/26/06 09:00 PM
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I lived through the horror of my husband's affair 11 years ago. It was with my so called 'best friend' and the aftermath was horrific. It took a long time, lots of counseling, etc. but we ended up staying together.

My girlfriend strongly suspects her husband is having an affair. He is being very secretive, defensive, etc. I know that in the past people have posted about how to snoop to find evidence. Does anyone know where that might be or any info that might help? Thanks so much.

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Ardamax keylogger. Free download. Install. Will reveal all passes and any email he writes. If he saves them she maybe able to read the other persons.

I think there is a faq on site but not sure where.

GL to your friend.


Moral of the Mayonnaise Jar: Do you want a full life? Or just sand?
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BS: Me: 33
WS: 32
Married 10 years
Affair Started: May 06
Exposure: July 06
Daughter 4 years
Son 2 years
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Teacher,
Kudos for working through betrayal, I suspect your far stronger having done so.
Celphone records are pretty good trails to follow up on. Someone on this site has an excellent link called spying 101.
I've found that one should listen to their gut instincts and verify items that are of concern.


BS (me) 44
FWW 41
M 18 yrs
FWW in LTA, Dday Jan 2005
K - S15 & D12
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GPS tracker on the car is quite easy to do, not very expensive and extremely revealing.

Look at www <dot> LandAirSea <dot> com

Also a quick search on ebay will find some good prices for these devices.

Good luck to your friend.

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Here is the link to the thread:

Spying 101

Good luck!


BS (me) 30
Ex-FWH (iamsosorry) 32
Married 1997
DD, 10; DD, 6
A - PA 10/8/05 - 11/23/05?? - will never know the whole truth!!
ILYBNILWY speech - 11/10/05 - the day before my Birthday.....Happy Birthday to me!
D-Day - 11/23/05 - Happy Thanksgiving to me!
D-Day 2 - 4/10/06 - Happy Easter to me! (First time I found out it wasn't a ONS as he's been telling us all)
Divorced - finalized 7/07

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