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Wedding Anniversary approaching do I get WW a card
#1722084 08/02/06 12:17 PM
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WW has been to see OM 3 times in the month of july, they have slept together and they are deep in fog and fantasy. I pretty much in blan B in the home with her but was wondering do I get her an anniversary card just to point out I remembered our day?
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vikingruler #1722085 08/02/06 12:18 PM
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How can you be in plan B with her in the home? Isnt' plan B no contact?????

I'm thinking no to the card..........

Me FWW 36 BH 50 D-day 1 2/18/06 D-day 2 3/28/06 (same EA) NC 3/28/06 and going strong 7 total children Mine/ours live with us DS 15 DD 12 DD 21 months "With all it's shams, lies, and broken dreams, life is still wonderful. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
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MrsRob #1722086 08/02/06 12:35 PM
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If you mean plan A.. then definitely get a card, or flowers, or something else.
Even a WW will think "He didn't even bother to get me something."
I'm not saying she'll appreciate it..
You could say the card is for your wife "when she gets back". <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

If you really mean plan B - MrsRob is quite right, plan B while still living with WW and letting her go to OM is no plan B !!

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brownhair #1722087 08/02/06 01:05 PM
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Get the card and acknowledge your anniversary. Nothing mushy, just a real nice card.

"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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"WW, I want you to know I haven't forgotten, and I don't want this to be our last."

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