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Why Why Why ???? Why is she doing this.....
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All of a sudden,

Today WW asked me to take out the chicken cutlets so she can make them for dinner?

Then she came here and made the children lunch and then left.....

ahh the mind of a WW/WS

What am I to think?
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She's confused and inconsistent....fogged and unpredictable. Don't get sucked into her chaos. sorry <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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I know but she has been so consistanly cold, that why is she being warmer, I know she is still playing the field?
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ANY ONE wanna help?????
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They can't think clearly from one minute to the other..their life is divided and so are their minds.

They cannot focus.

They are off balance.

She is doing this b/c this is the predictable unpredictability that encompasses the WS.

NEVER try to figure them out. State words in simple easy to comprehend sentences and keep on track with your words to her...

I swear..the WS lose IQ points when in affair mode big time!

me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Peachy is right on...

Example: I met my WW and STBXW at the county fair the other night with our children in tow and she was extremely polite and civil just a few weeks after acting like she was (she is by the way) possessed. In three weeks time we will be having World War III in court for custody and here we are having dinner together and riding rides and playing game and so on....

So, you see, follow Peachy's advice and don't read anything into their words, actions, etc. They are off their rocker about 99% of the time.

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