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The TRUTH: (the 2 friends she is referring to is me and cardsonly)
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I have TONS of stuff to tell you and to confess on MB.
I will confess later to MB..you two I am sure will not want to correspond with me
anymore but I have to come clean.
It is complicated. I want to tell you and I want to confess to MB
and clear my conscious...IT IS TIME.
But I am babysitting and probably can't do it til Monday.
Company is coming after church for xxx's birthday tomorrow.
I DID first start posting as Sarie.
I had an affair with a man that was dying..he weighed 100 when I met
him and helped care for him. (I was a Hospice volunteer.)
After he had a heart lung transplant he got a lot better and our friendship
grew and grew over a period of 10 YEARS.
Then he met an old classmate in Aug of 2003 and married her that following
summer....so of course the affair ended.
It was NOT a physical affair...he was on 16 medications and he could NOT
do that! It was 99.9 % a telephone affair. We talked about everything, religion
science we got along so good. He was lonely and I am the kind of person that
needs to feel needed. (I didn't have a computer then, he still doesn't.)
I remember once telling MB that I met with OM to say goodbye..that we met
at the river and had a 'wonderful time' ....they said UGH...they assumed it was
SEX but we sat on a big rock and watched Sycamore leaf float by.
I layed my head on his shoulder as he held me and we both cried.
It was so hard to say good bye but we HAD to since he had found someone else
PLUS I was married.
OH, I have so much to be truthful with you. I am not 50, I am 60!
I didn't think you would want to email with someone this much older than you,
but I am a YOUNG 60!
Our only son was killed in a car accident in 1984...I couldn't tell you because you
might connect me with Sarie....and our middle daugher's husband was killed in
a car accident 2 years ago leaving her with three little girls, ages 2 months to 5 years.
That is why we babysit so often...I have tears for my deceitfulness with my two friends.
But I posted this as BLESSED TIME so again, you might connect me.
Then in 04, I met XXX...he and my first OM were classmates. He wiill be 70 years
old this FALL!
I faked as Blessed Time as being a BS because I was treated so badly as Sarie
(I was SO defiant) that I wanted to be thought of highly on MB as a betrayead spouse.
Then at the end, before I stopped posting as Blessed Time, they were connecting that
I might be Sarie.
So really I have had 3 affairs...XXX in 1980 (he died in 1988) and then the LT affair
and then XXX, the online affair to help me get over the other affair!
XXX knows about the first two but not about XXX.
Oh God, I am SO SORRY.
I don't expect you forgive me, I surely don't deserve it.
What I am writing is 100% true! [/color]
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She is babysitting her grandchildren and does not have her MB password with her... The TRUTH TO FOLLOW>>> Obviously, more lies. She's been busy amending her posts on MB all day.... "doesn't have her password with her" Yea right...which one(s) is she missing. Mr. W
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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MrsW - IWRA has no part in any decision I make....
She has given me permission to post her TRUTH as she cannot post it write now. She is babysitting her grandchildren and does not have her MB password with her...
The TRUTH TO FOLLOW>>> I certainly hope not 2B...But I fear that you and countless others ARE casualities of her heartless games here...I see this situation as very macabre. I would strongly caution you and others against believing any "truths" that she asserts... Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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MelodyLane, Kiwi and others...I really don't know what the truth is...this is what she wrote me and allowed me to post. I can't believe anything right now. I have been truthful in everything I write here and on emails. I guess I am too naive to believe people...I'm in tears right now because I feel so duped!
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The TRUTH: (the 2 friends she is referring to is me and cardsonly)
I have TONS of stuff to tell you and to confess on MB.
I will confess later to MB..you two I am sure will not want to correspond with me
anymore but I have to come clean.
It is complicated. I want to tell you and I want to confess to MB
and clear my conscious...IT IS TIME.
But I am babysitting and probably can't do it til Monday.
Company is coming after church for xxx's birthday tomorrow.
I DID first start posting as Sarie.
I had an affair with a man that was dying..he weighed 100 when I met
him and helped care for him. (I was a Hospice volunteer.)
After he had a heart lung transplant he got a lot better and our friendship
grew and grew over a period of 10 YEARS.
Then he met an old classmate in Aug of 2003 and married her that following
summer....so of course the affair ended.
It was NOT a physical affair...he was on 16 medications and he could NOT
do that! It was 99.9 % a telephone affair. We talked about everything, religion
science we got along so good. He was lonely and I am the kind of person that
needs to feel needed. (I didn't have a computer then, he still doesn't.)
I remember once telling MB that I met with OM to say goodbye..that we met
at the river and had a 'wonderful time' ....they said UGH...they assumed it was
SEX but we sat on a big rock and watched Sycamore leaf float by.
I layed my head on his shoulder as he held me and we both cried.
It was so hard to say good bye but we HAD to since he had found someone else
PLUS I was married.
OH, I have so much to be truthful with you. I am not 50, I am 60!
I didn't think you would want to email with someone this much older than you,
but I am a YOUNG 60!
Our only son was killed in a car accident in 1984...I couldn't tell you because you
might connect me with Sarie....and our middle daugher's husband was killed in
a car accident 2 years ago leaving her with three little girls, ages 2 months to 5 years.
That is why we babysit so often...I have tears for my deceitfulness with my two friends.
But I posted this as BLESSED TIME so again, you might connect me.
Then in 04, I met XXX...he and my first OM were classmates. He wiill be 70 years
old this FALL!
I faked as Blessed Time as being a BS because I was treated so badly as Sarie
(I was SO defiant) that I wanted to be thought of highly on MB as a betrayead spouse.
Then at the end, before I stopped posting as Blessed Time, they were connecting that
I might be Sarie.
So really I have had 3 affairs...XXX in 1980 (he died in 1988) and then the LT affair
and then XXX, the online affair to help me get over the other affair!
XXX knows about the first two but not about XXX.
Oh God, I am SO SORRY.
I don't expect you forgive me, I surely don't deserve it.
What I am writing is 100% true! We better start making it a habit of quoting all her words for posterity. This weeks "truth" may yet change again next week under some new name. IWRA...tell your husband. Mr. W
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
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The only truth there is that she indeed Sarie. The story fits Sarie's.
I can only say again, 2B, let her and it go.
My mouth is still dropped open from finding out she was BlessedTime as well.
It's a salutory lesson about the internet and one we should all take on board.
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YES...IWRA...God can only help you!
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How did you all figure this out? I guess you have been reading here long enough! I wasn't reading here when Sarie posted...at least I don't think so!
It's very sad. I really do hope and pray that she will be truthful to her husband.
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This would explain why she is so invested in encouraging other waywards to NOT do things such as expose, etc, and why she rejects MB principles such as Harley's no contact letter as "cruel." She protects and casts as "victims" other WS's on this forum. It is because she has never come clean herself. This would explain why she ATTACKS other BS's for criticising cruel wayward behavior. By extension it is an indictment of HER because she is guilty.
I will never forget her abject cruelty to BobPure when he was in the absolute depths of despair. He was suicidal with despair and she called him out and bullied him for daring to come here and criticise his WS, who was venomous to Bob.
What she did to BobPure and others is unconscionable in its cruelty.
Now I understand why IWRA went hog wild when I referred to affair sex as "2 pigs rutting in the pig pen." When she was Sarie, she used to come here and gloat and romanticize her "beautiful, loving" affair. She went crazy when I told her that her stinking affair was about as "romantic" as 2 pigs getting it on in the pig pen.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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How did you all figure this out? I guess you have been reading here long enough! I wasn't reading here when Sarie posted...at least I don't think so! Well, I caught her posting as SummerSky last week and I thought that was strange. [she has since gone back today and added the sig "IWRA" to those posts - they did not say IWRA before] When I looked up SS's posts, I found SillyGirl04 and knew immediately it was IWRA when I started reading. There was some crossover in these posts from BlessedTime and I went back and read her posts. BT left when she was outed as Sarie. So I compared BT's posts to IWRA and found the same phrases, grammer, MO, and even the same thread titles. When I compared them, I knew immediately it was her. But those are just the ones I have FOUND. I would not be surprised if there are more.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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ML - You are a good detective. It would have been obvious to me had I read those posts earlier. I did a search after you posted these ID's and saw how obvious it was! Thus, I asked her to come clean about who she really is. I am so sorry that I opened myself to helping her. I was honest and for that, I was deceived and lied to. I don't know what is true. I only hope she repents of her ways and comes clean with God and her husband.
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She also deceived cardsonly.... I feel so betrayed.
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ML - You are a good detective. It would have been obvious to me had I read those posts earlier. I did a search after you posted these ID's and saw how obvious it was! 2BNormal, thanks! I am so surprised I didn't see it sooner. I just don't expect that people are going to be deceitful so I wasn't looking for it myself until I caught her posting as SummerSky!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Summersky was obvious, but I didn't catch that until you pointed it out.
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This sucks on so many levels. First, you have someone with an obvious agenda giving really destructive advice to folks in fragile condition. Second, her drama is taking up valuable time from folks who really need the advice from you veterans. Third, folks who came to her defense in recent threads are going to feel like total idiots, and are going to be less likely to offer their support or opinions, even if they have something useful to say.
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Going back now to see if she posted any advice to me...
I'd suggest others do the same.
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Now that sure is some crazzzzy azzz sh*t! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> Dang, wish I'd have known that earlier. She sure would have been treated her a weeeeeee bit differently then she was. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> Guess since she HAS to confess to her Hubby Before she posts again <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />........we'll Never see "this" Identity Again. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> So Owl, you STILL gonna be so supportive of Her (and her positions) Now? Just wondering. 2Be: regardless of what you think of many on here, I don't wish the hurt of being lied to and a level of betrayal on anyone Here. I know this kind of thing really STINGS. Truly, hope you can package this feeling coming from someone that supported your Decisions to not tell the other BS .......and can Interpret that it Would be the Appropriate Action to take. You may not LIKE some of the rest of us: But for all our OTHER faults ......were not lying to you. Please think about it.
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This kind of deceit just pizzes me off. When I think all the crap IWRA started over Just Jilly's deal. And like someone else mentioned, all the good intentioned folks who supported those bogus screen names and faux sitches. What an offensive fraud. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> This woman/man needs professional help.
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