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CS, BO... IRWA... need anything more be said about these stooges! I think there are some people out there in MB land that really need to think about those that they were alligning themselves with...if BO, CS or IRWA was supporting your position... well, it might be time to take another look at where you stand. Just a thought.
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Sarie/BlessedTime/IWRA has been here berating and harrassing BS' for years under several different aliases because she felt they weren't NICE enough to wayward spouses, all the while committing the cruelest acts of all. She has decieved her own husband for years and has deceived us for years. Additionally, she rarely missed an opportunity to exploit the weaknesses of foggy WS' to encourage them to do the wrong thing, while casting doubt on MB principles whereever she could. To this day, I see RED FURY when I remember her hatefilled posts to BobPure to bully him for criticising his WS - his wife "wasn't here to defend herself" according to her - while he was suicidal with despair and grief at the recent discovery of his wife's affair. She has learned NOTHING in the years she has been here. NOTHING. Instead she has begun a NEW AFFAIR all the while continuing to lie to her husband about the last one. All the while being ever so "helpful" to the newly arrived WW's and as condemning as possible to other BS'. All the "nice words" and "kindness" that she harps endlessly about is nothing more than a sick, twisted ACT designed to cover up the flagrant cruelty and deceit that she practices in action. She rails against others about being "kind," when she is anything but. "Kind," my [censored]. She is about as "kind" as a rattlesnake. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> As we say in Texas: TALK IS CHEAP! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
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This post below distancing herself from Sarie is just delusional - Mr. W
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Re: Loving Affair [Re: Trix]
#2695709 - Tue Apr 26 2005 10:37 PM
Trix, I also typed Sarie and Blessed TIME in search to see what you all are talking about. There were 11 posts where I responded to her or about her.
I thought this was the one you meant:
Re: Blessed Time
#1176605 - 09/10/04 10:24 AM
Hi Karen.
Thanks for your Caring...you are always So considerate of others.
I am not coming to the message board very often anymore, half an hour every forenoon...Our marriage is on the right path and we are busy with life and grandkids.
The comment about me being Sarie did hurt my feelings, as we are entirely opposite in our life's situation....But, whatever, it is OK.
I have been feeling my advice isn't so good, I ALWAYS tend to be for the person getting attacked whether it be the WS or the BS.
Bob and I had a difference of opinion which is OK also.
So I feel it is best if I don't post very often...I have learned a LOT here and am trying hard to improve myself. I think the people at MB are the GREATEST ever!
Thanks again, Karen, I am fine.
Love, Julie [Smile]
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folks who came to her defense in recent threads are going to feel like total idiots, and are going to be less likely to offer their support or opinions, IRWA was supporting your position... Guilty as charged... atleast a few times anyway. Always was too trusting and naive... I guess this hasn't changed. Shaden
BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.
Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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I feel very SAD right now. This woman was supposedly a friend and has LIED to ME! I don't trust ANYONE right now! "I don't trust ANYONE" what an interesting thing for you to say I trust many people I trust many MB people but, not all Pep
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While I believe that respect must be earned, trust, for me, must be DISearned (wait... is that a word??)
It's healthier to trust people... to believe they have good intentions.
Until someone proves to me otherwise, I trust them.
This has burned me on several occassions, but I would never change my position due to these incidents.
Being trusting brings more love and joy into your life. Being betrayed brings great sorrow, but with it great lessons.
I know this sounds hypocritical coming from a FWW, and I apologize if I offend.
I have learned...
Me: FWW (34)
H: BS (35)
Together 12 years, no children (yet)
LTA: 3 years
D-Day: Sept. 13, 2005 (I confessed)
So blessed, thankful and happy for my wonderful H...
"God lives in the gathering of saints."
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KM
FYI
I'm prolly yer Moma's age
I give people the benifit of the doubt ... I offer conditional & temporary trust at first
the deeper trust comes later
my inner sanctum sanctorum
this is why the betrayul of infidelity hurts so much , it's a wound of the inner sanctum
and someone who claims to trust no one, has revealed their own vacant inner sanctum ... a most sad state I am sure !
Pep
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The TRUTH: (the 2 friends she is referring to is me and cardsonly)
[color:"blue"]
I have TONS of stuff to tell you and to confess on MB.
I will confess later to MB..you two I am sure will not want to correspond with me
anymore but I have to come clean.
It is complicated. I want to tell you and I want to confess to MB
and clear my conscious...IT IS TIME.
But I am babysitting and probably can't do it til Monday.
Company is coming after church for xxx's birthday tomorrow.
I DID first start posting as Sarie.
I had an affair with a man that was dying..he weighed 100 when I met
him and helped care for him. (I was a Hospice volunteer.)
After he had a heart lung transplant he got a lot better and our friendship
grew and grew over a period of 10 YEARS.
Then he met an old classmate in Aug of 2003 and married her that following
summer....so of course the affair ended.[/color]
It was NOT a physical affair...[color:"blue"]he was on 16 medications and he could NOT
do that! It was 99.9 % a telephone affair. We talked about everything, religion
science we got along so good. He was lonely and I am the kind of person that
needs to feel needed. (I didn't have a computer then, he still doesn't.)
I remember once telling MB that I met with OM to say goodbye..that we met
at the river and had a 'wonderful time' ....they said UGH...they assumed it was
SEX but we sat on a big rock and watched Sycamore leaf float by.
I layed my head on his shoulder as he held me and we both cried.
It was so hard to say good bye but we HAD to since he had found someone else
PLUS I was married.
OH, I have so much to be truthful with you. I am not 50, I am 60!
I didn't think you would want to email with someone this much older than you,
but I am a YOUNG 60!
Our only son was killed in a car accident in 1984...I couldn't tell you because you
might connect me with Sarie....and our middle daugher's husband was killed in
a car accident 2 years ago leaving her with three little girls, ages 2 months to 5 years.
That is why we babysit so often...I have tears for my deceitfulness with my two friends.
But I posted this as BLESSED TIME so again, you might connect me.
Then in 04, I met XXX...he and my first OM were classmates. He wiill be 70 years
old this FALL!
I faked as Blessed Time as being a BS because I was treated so badly as Sarie
(I was SO defiant) that I wanted to be thought of highly on MB as a betrayead spouse.
Then at the end, before I stopped posting as Blessed Time, they were connecting that
I might be Sarie.
So really I have had 3 affairs...XXX in 1980 (he died in 1988) and then the LT affair
and then XXX, the online affair to help me get over the other affair!
XXX knows about the first two but not about XXX.
Oh God, I am SO SORRY.
I don't expect you forgive me, I surely don't deserve it.
What I am writing is 100% true! [/color]
ummmmmmm
2B ...your slip is showing.....
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Re: Rat Meat or OMxW's xH?
#1198167 - 11/01/04 04:32 PM
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Dear 2long.
I do still lurk here at MB and spend about an hour reading each day!
I cannot post often here at MB because I am one of the wives that never told her husband of a 10 year long affair.
Everyone was 'on me' to confess (justifyably on me) and yes, I have been reading Dreamcatcher's thread and believe me, I understand the 'whipping' she is getting.....
My PA with the OM has been over since August of last year....but the EA part of it continues...It probably will for a long long time; perhaps the love and caring we have for one another will continue in our hearts for a lifetime! I don't have that answer.
So, 2long, I was admiring your decision not to call the OM, RATMEAT, anymore...heehee...I am glad you never used it with your wife when referring to him.
Us WW tend to see the OM differently than our BH sees him.
Love ya
Sarah [b]~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Pep
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By not being a PHYSICAL affair, I meant we NEVER HAD SEX!
It WAS a EA/PA though.
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... besides ... I was talking to 2B not Sarie ... can you send her over? Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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I faked as Blessed Time as being a BS because I was treated so badly as Sarie
(I was SO defiant) that I wanted to be thought of highly on MB as a betrayead spouse. I find this particular quote incredibly offensive...Not only is it mocking and disrespectful to the true BSes here, but it is also a slap in the face to the REAL FWSes here that have earned their "Fs"...Sarie or whoever you are, if you want so badly to be thought highly of, then show ACTUAL CHARACTER befitting of such treatment... The untold amount of harm that you have caused in your time here makes my blood run cold... Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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By not being a PHYSICAL affair, I meant we NEVER HAD SEX!
It WAS a EA/PA though.
you slip is still showing
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#1118200 - 04/05/04 04:14 PM
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Dear Kati.
What you wrote about the nature of loving affairs is exactly how I feel about the OM that I had a deep friendship with and a passionate love affair for 10 years.
yes it was
no it was not
who says it was
I do
so do I
who are you?
I am you and you are me
>glug*gurgle*glug< .... sounds of someone drowning in lies
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Pep...I really don't know why you are referring to me and my slipping??? All I posted was what IWRA emailed me.
I don't know what is TRUE or NOT TRUE in her email! I didn't even go and read those entire threads before posting her email! So tell me what you are saying, please.
And my statement about not trusting anyone right now...well that is HOW I felt at the MOMENT! Good grief! Talk about analyzing someone and picking apart what they say! I believed IWRA for months and believed she was telling me the truth about her life. Now, I find out it was ALL LIES! How do you think I felt at that moment???? Please give me a break OK?
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I know just how you feel.
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If the mods were 2 ban all login's from her IP address, I wonder how many of us would disappear?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> but I'm NOT Sarie! (and neither is Qfwfq). And THAT's the TRUTH! Trust me! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> -ol' 2long
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I'm melting, I'm melting...
BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.
Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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If the mods were 2 ban all login's from her IP address, I wonder how many of us would disappear?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> but I'm NOT Sarie! (and neither is Qfwfq). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> -ol' 2long
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If the mods were 2 ban all login's from her IP address, I wonder how many of us would disappear?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> but I'm NOT Sarie! (and neither is Qfwfq). And THAT's the TRUTH! Trust me! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> -ol' 2long **snort** <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> and you know it wouldn't be me either, because I am not "kind" enough. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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