Thanks Neak. Found out today (via keylogger) that OM is afraid that WS will dump him and that is what sparked the convo betwixt them.

I hadn't wanted to Plan B until Nov. anyway. MIL stayed night again last night but WS went to OM's. MIL cried hard.

I think calling WS tonight for a light and lively convo can further plant seeds in his mind.

[Yoda]Doubt leads to desperation, desperation leads to unattractiveness and smothering. Smothering leads to end of affair.[/Yoda]

Muhahahahaha!

krusht,
What was Papaof3's email like?
thanks,
Brian

On the right track, you are.

Unravel, they will.

To hasten its end, interfere with it not.

Yoda

WAT, you rock. Always with the wisdom you are.

Thor,

His post is, like 5 or 6 down from this one.

Interesting developments:

WS went to dinner on Fri. with two mutual friends. One a FWW and the other a BW. They drove WS home and demanded to meet OM. BW called later and told me that he is old and has yellow teeth.

Both told her not to wait too long for the marriage may be irreconcilable (sp?).

I have season tickets to SU football (I am a diehard fan/ alumn). WS was checking work sched. to see if she could be with kids while I was at game.

WS looked at Fball Sched and work sched then said the following:

"I can't on the 9th because I have to work, someone is going on vacation."

I said, "Who?"

She said, "[OM] is going to stay in a cabin on Oneida Lake for a week with his friend, (DRUMROLL PLEASE) Debbie."

That's right folks. My WS's OM is spending a week alone in a cabin on a lake with a woman that is NOT MY WS! Bwuhahahahahahaha!

I said, "Doesn't that bother you... Wait! Don't tell me, I don't want to know. It is none of my business."

Hahahaha.

*thud*

Yoda?

Probably not that wise.

Maybe from Suckistan.

What does this mean?

She shouldn't wait too long or she'll lose you?


A better response: "I hoping the quarterback sitch is resolved by then. Wouldn't want to have a wasted weekend."

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WAT

SU?

Syracuse University=SU.

Friends basically stated the principle that every day she continues the affair and does not work on the marriage makes it harder to reconcile the M.

yeah that makes sense..we got to figure out a good way of stopping these damn affairs or were gonna be doing this for a very long time

Hehe. When last we saw our hero...


Things are getting stranger and stranger.

WS came over yesterday and took Daughter to swim. When lesson was over I took kiddies to Nana's house. WS had mentioned wanting to read SAA. SAA was gone when I returned home.

Today, WS came over and we went to a restaurant with the kiddies (we split the cost)(I offered to cover it). Filled ENs ala Plan A. She left SAA at OM's house. Is this her subconscious trying to destroy the A?

Earlier today, WS went car shopping and was talking to sales man who is @ 22 years old. He was flirting with her. She mentioned that she had kids, he said she didn't look like she could have had kids. She said she was separated (NOTE NO MENTION OF OM). He (the salesman) called her cell and left a voice mail that told her that he had a different car for her to look at and then asked her out on a date.

Apparently, he asked her out while she was car shopping as well. She saved the Voice Mail message after I heard it and laughed with her.

She is going to share the experience and the voice mail with OM who is already afraid she is going to dump him.

Today I am in a great mood. Although, the past week I have been on the I don't give a %$@! track. I am getting all legal obligations settled. Really wanted a D this week, but:

Regarding SAA. WS Comments: I read half of it (IN JUST A COUPLE HOURS!) and felt weird. Are you like that guy (Jon) in the book, patiently waiting? (to which I said yes). She had a positive demeanor when saying these things. With OM out of town with his father, WS seemed to be out of fog.

Thanks all, of course, any comments are welcome!

In next week's episode, Brian continues to wait patiently and following the ancient daoist principle "wu wei". Which literally is "without action."

Sayonara,

Brian

sounds like you had a good day,keep it going and see how it goes
best of luck man

Really feeling that urge to Divorce. How do I fight it?

Here is what the feeling is based on: 4 year old daughter wakes up at 3 AM and cries asking where mommy is and why she doesn't live here. I reassure her that mommy loves her.

In my head: Mommy's not here because she wants to have sex with someone else. Sleep in, have sex anytime of day if she wants (probably a little too much on the imagination front.) So eff her! This is what she wants...

How do I fight the urge to D?

i really dont think you mean that right now.
try to keep your head in the game ,i know its hard but giving up does no good.
no good for your kids
no good for your wife
no good for you
you got to give it a proper time line or youll regret it
you would never know what couldve been and that alone will eat at you...
try to keep your head together and get back in the fight

YES YES YES!

Oh man, once again you helped. I can't even describe the little sensation that just went through my head when I read that.


Make that your signature!
Thanks, JM

I owe you one.

Brian

any time i owe you too!!!!!!!!!!
theres been days you pulled me back in the fight and im grateful
we will get through this for sure.
btw did you ever call the harleys?
ive been thinking about doing that do you know how it works?