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I wouldn't be patient... just be cool.... ask her...heck, go to her workplace and ask her. Tell her that you did the test and start Plan B'ing this #@$@$%!
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sunny, I think you need to confront her with your evidence but it must be done without lovebusters. I think you also need to have a chat with her about her spending. She can't continue to spend your family into bankruptcy.
I would wait to see if she confronts you today about exposing to OMW. If she says nothing, you will have to tell her she has been busted.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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follow Melody's advice... I am really not thinking the M is worth saving and I shouldn't project that on to you.... Melody has a better ability to be objective about this.
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sunny, please calm down. Take steps to protect your finances and your children by contacting an attorney. Don't fight with her and don't allow her to bait you into a fight. But get yourself protected financially and in the matter of your boys. Try and get primary custody, DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE NO MATTER WHAT, and specify in the custody papers that your children are not to be exposed to her affair partners.
Most of all, CALM DOWN!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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hi m.lane,im back after months of no access.d has been filed and we are co parenting every 2 weeks.trying for a uncontested.so sad!just wanted to say thanks for advice from u and others.
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sd, I am sure sorry to hear you decided to get a divorce. Hope you are doing better.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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i didnt want to but ww insisted and ww is still seeing om.im praying and trusting god to find his will for me,i think i will have my boys more than half,ww will be busy with om.and sooner or later ww will regret what ww has done to her family i think.
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Have you finished plan A for your personal improvements? That will help you move forward. You are moving forward you know.
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think i am going between anger and depression and acceptance and missing ww.think im wearing my family out talking bout ww sometimes.ww calls less now every 3 days or so usually needs me to pick up stepdaughter from school,i do when i can.
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Have you finished plan A for your personal improvements? That will help you move forward. You are moving forward you know.
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think i am plan a when she calls,but i mostly plan b,ww was using me right after we seperated asking me to get grocerys and small items.
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