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Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! #1728659 08/10/06 05:37 PM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 246 R ready2wait Member
ready2wait Member R Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 246	I am trying to fight the strongest urge to call my WH! I've been in Plan B since June 13th but the no contact is really tugging at me. I know I'm not supposed to call contact WH but I actually dialed his work # this morning. Luckily, he didn't pick up and I didn't leave a message. Help, I need to stop this urge! I've been trying to stay strong but it's too hard. Looking forward to a new chapter since D was finalized on 4/24/07 from WH. "I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! ready2wait #1728660 08/10/06 05:45 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	go have a pedicure LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! Pepperband #1728661 08/10/06 05:47 PM
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Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	pray LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! Pepperband #1728662 08/10/06 05:47 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	dance LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! Pepperband #1728663 08/10/06 05:47 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	go for a walk or a swim LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! Pepperband #1728664 08/10/06 05:50 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	write a poem LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! Pepperband #1728665 08/10/06 05:55 PM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 246 R ready2wait Member
ready2wait Member R Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 246	Thanks, Pep. I'm going to go running at the beach. The urge to call hit me a few hours ago and then again this afternoon. Geeze, today was a pretty emotional one for me. It's not getting any easier. My life w/o WH is getting harder and harder. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I don't know what I do without this board! Looking forward to a new chapter since D was finalized on 4/24/07 from WH. "I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! ready2wait #1728666 08/10/06 07:20 PM
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County B believer Member
believer Member B Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County	Just remember that every time you break Plan B, you are helping the OW.

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! believer #1728667 08/10/06 07:22 PM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 184 T thorstein Member
thorstein Member T Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 184	...and not yourself! Moral of the Mayonnaise Jar: Do you want a full life? Or just sand? --------------------------------------------------------------- BS: Me: 33 WS: 32 Married 10 years Affair Started: May 06 Exposure: July 06 Daughter 4 years Son 2 years

Re: Help- I am fighting urge to call WH! thorstein #1728668 08/11/06 04:45 PM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 138 C corinth13 Member
corinth13 Member C Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 138	In my experience with this, talky, talky equal angry, angry by my wayward. I gave in last weekend to my emotion, it does no good. This morning I came across these verses in Proverbs 9:7-8 "Whoever corrects a mocker invites insult; whoever rebukes a wicked man incurs abuse. Do not rebuke a mocker or he will hate you; rebuke a wise man and he will love you." At least from what I've witnessed, this has been absolutely true. I'm done talking, I was never good at it anyway. Go surfing. "Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known." 1 Corinthians 13:12

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