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as mastercard would say...............priceless.

Do not take this thread to feel down harted but to be aware that there is nothing unique about these situations.

where do they get the idea that a child would be better brought up with parents under seperate roofs?

man.........sex sure mess the brain up.

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This one may be unique, I don't know.....

About 2 weeks after DDay WW said the following:

I hate you, I have hated you for years!! (this one really hurt me)

I (WW) and DD are scared of you....????? (Where did this come from, I still don't understand this one......

anyway my two cents...


BS (Me) 37 WW 38 M 18 years DD 11 yrs. old PA 2 Years with BIL D-Day 24 Sep 05
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After years of intense research and analysis we conclude...... textbook WW fogtalk. As i read somewhere. WS doesnt care for your feelings. They do what they do for one reason only. To justify. You cannot afford to LB in anyway whatsoever.

Their fantasy will crumble eventually. It always does.

No one can deny the hurt felt or about to be felt by us.

But it does test your character and prove you to be a BS of substance to take it and grow.

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It is easier to tolerate the fogspeak when I have learned that the same silly things are said by all of them!


BH = Me 38; WW = 35; DS = 5, DD = 3, DD = 14 mo.
Feb 2006 = EA/PA started
May 19 & Aug. 15, 2006 = D-Days
Nov. 3, 2006 = Divorce Papers - (EA/PA ongoing)
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This song pretty much sums up the fog...it is the WS...how their own brains lie to them...I heard this song on way to work a few days ago...and I hope you all listen to this...I am not a huge Metallica fan..but I love alternative...this song is totally 100 percent right on WS! The fog makes them lie...say things they don't really mean..but at the time do mean...and they lie, cheat and steal...would steal from a dying man to further their feel good brain hormones. They're like an animal outta control...basically. I hate to relegate the WS to an animal...but their actions here...and you see alot, are on the level..heck I think most animals are a bit more caring to their own kind!

SAD BUT TRUE...metallica
Hey I’m your life
I’m the one who takes you there
Hey I’m your life
I’m the one who cares
They, They betray
I’m your only true friend now
They, They’ll betray
I’m forever there

I’m your dream, make you real
I’m your eyes when you must steal
I’m your pain when you can’t feel
Sad but true

I’m your dream, mind astray
I’m your eyes while you’re away
I’m your pain while you repay
You know it’s sad but true

You, You’re my mask
You’re my cover, my shelter
You, You’re my mask
You’re the one who’s blamed
Do, Do my work
Do my dirty work, scapegoat
Do, Do my deeds
For you’re the one who’s shamed

I’m your dream, make you real
I’m your eyes when you must steal
I’m your pain when you can’t feel
Sad but true

I’m your dream, mind astray
I’m your eyes while you’re away
I’m your pain while you repay
You know it’s sad but true

I'm your dreams,
I'm your eyes,
I'm your pain

I'm your dreams,
I'm your eyes,
I'm your pain,
You know it’s sad but true


Hate, I’m your hate
I’m your hate when you want love
Pay, Pay the price
Pay for nothing’s fair

Hey, I’m your life
I’m the one who took you there
Hey, I’m your life
And I no longer care

I’m your dream, make you real
I’m your eyes when you must steal
I’m your pain when you can’t feel
Sad but true

I’m your truth, telling lies
I’m your reasoned alibis
I’m inside open your eyes
I’m you

Sad but true


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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wow.

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