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#1746037 09/12/06 02:52 PM
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I know there are several "rooms" to post to at MB/Infidelity. I have always been posting in Recovering because I feel thats where my relationship is but this forum, General Qestions II, seems to have A LOT more traffic. Is there a difference? Should I stay there? Is one "better" than the other?

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BS(me)-41
FWS(wife)-39
D-11
D-13
S-15
Dday-1 10/05/05
Dday-2 06/02/06
Dday-3 07/14/06
Married - 17 years, together 23
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Well, I'll say that generally, folks that participate on the In Recovery forum are those whose marriages are recovering from an infidelity. I think that's what it's intent was.

Folks that post on Just Found Out, Plan A/B, or General Questions II are generally those whose marriages are currently experiencing affairs.

Pretty simple, huh? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Of course, you can post anywhere you want. But if your spouse's or your affair is still in progress - a simple indicator being whether contact is still being made between the affairees - I'd recommend you post on GQII. You're not "technically" "In Recovery" yet.

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Thanks worthatry,

I think you answered my question. I dont truly know if there is anymore contact - but do any of us "truly" know?

Based on where we are and what she says and how I feel about what she says, we are in recovery. I thought that 9 months ago too but it does seem more like it this time.

Thanks again....

2LLP


BS(me)-41
FWS(wife)-39
D-11
D-13
S-15
Dday-1 10/05/05
Dday-2 06/02/06
Dday-3 07/14/06
Married - 17 years, together 23
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2LLP - Really, to my mind, there is not a lot of difference but GQII is FAR busier. There and many on GQII with recovering marriages. Post wherever you get the best response.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.

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