Ready2- I went back and read your stitch a little closer your WH and mine could be the same man.

You said,
I feel like everyone has given up on WH except for me.

I was feeling this same way. Then my Pastor told me she has been praying for a Christian man to get in WH face 3 days later a very dear friend (Christian Man) told me that if I was ok with it he would get in WH face I said go ahead. There is nothing more to lose.


You said,
This is what our former pastor said. He was good friends with WH up until d-day:
"Looks like a great message and I can obviously see why it impacted you. As far as whether to send it to WH I don't know.

My former pastor will be here next month for a wedding and he wanted to know if he needed to get a couple of big guys to meet WH in a dark alley. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

All the people at my church are very shocked by WH. A comment the other day by a friend "Wow I always thought WH missed his calling.

It amazes me how far from God this wayward can get.

This also may be a case where scripture supports letting your WH go. That is if he is not a believer. Determining if he is or not is another story altogether. 1 Corinthians 7:15-16 says: "if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so."

You are not bound to your husband any longer, and FH is right, your marriage is over. But it sounds as though you want to make a stand for your marriage and be a witness to your husband. That is extremely admirable in light of what he has put you through. You will at least know, if your marriage does in fact end, that you did all that you could to be a faithful wife in the middle of such a painful plight. And if your WH comes back and turns his life and your marriage over to God, that would truly be a blessing.

Thank you so much, Corinth, IHC, FH, AD and MF. I am so grateful for your advice and input. Thanks to this website, I know I am not alone. God bless you all.