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I think my W is cheating. I have started to gather info and am trying to put the pieces together before I confront her. She has an online e-mail account that she does not think I know about. How the heck can I get in that account to see what she is doing with it? I know the e-mail address but I can't figure out the password. What are my options to getting in it without letting her know? Thanks!
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keylogger spyware. Find the spying 101 thread (go to Just Found Out board...look for Longhorn's thread pinned to the top called "For Newly Betrayed Spouses"....and in Longhorn's signature line is a link to the Spying 101 thread). Reading that thread will help also.
The keylogger will give you her password and then you can monitor it more closely without revealling your source. Accumulate enough evidence to bust down the wall of denial and then have your d-day. If she's not willing to end it immediately then expose it fully, without forewarning.
If OM is married, his spouse must be told immediately and again, without forewarning.
Post here for advice before you act.
Welcome to MB,
Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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If you have access to the computer without her around, and assuming it is a desktop, get a plug-in keylogger. You will have all her passwords.
If you want to load a software activity monitor, you can do that instead, but they are expensive. The up-side is that they can actually send you copies of all in and outbound emails. Some can even be remotely installed, but many anti-spyware programs can see and kill them.
Also keep an eye on cellphone records, especially any "work" related cell phones, if possible.
Read the spying 101 thread.
Good luck!
Mark
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