There is situations where the WS continues to work with the OP, so I thought it would be helpful to start a conversation about what BS' did to find out what was going on at the workplace.

How did you find out what was going on at your WS workplace if the affair was with a co-worker?

How did you "tap" into their work email accounts?

If you didn't have a friend or confidant at your spouses workplace, how did you go about getting one, etc . . .