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piojitos - thank you! (BTW, doesn't your handle mean 'lice'? Hope you're not offended by my terrible ignorance if it doesn't. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> )

bigkahuna - Thank you too. Time will sort it all out, I know, but it's taking soooo long. I honestly think I was in a better place this time last year. But then, I was on ADs. Might be time to reconsider coming off them...

Alph.


Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Yes ALph - Pio is a louse.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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Alphin - read The Four Agreements and make a different choice than to give him power to hurt you this Christmas. Remove HIS privilege of triggering you.

Please - get the book - your life depends upon you taking its message very seriously.


Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1

The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"?

The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!"

If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Thank you, KaylaAndy.

I will certainly check out this book - it looks like just my kind of thing.

Alph.


Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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(((((Alphin)))))
I dropped in just now and saw your post.
Question: what will you do when the affair ends ?
How would that change your life ?
Hang in there my dear.
Brit from Belgium


[color:"purple"]When we lose sight of the well being of others, it is like losing sight in one eye. (the Dalai Lama)[/color]
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Yes ALph - Pio is a louse.


On this, BigK and gemela agree.

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