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Sugarland's "Stand Back Up" was (is) my power song:
Go ahead and take your best shot Let 'er rip, give it all you've got I'm laid out on the floor, but I've been here before I may stumble, yeah I might fall Only human, but aren't we all? I might lose my way, but hear me when I say
I will stand back up You'll know just the moment when I've had enough Sometimes, I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough But I'll stand back up
I've been beaten up and bruised I've been kicked right off my shoes Been down on my knees, more times than you'd believe When the darkness tries to get me There's a light that just won't let me It might take my pride, and tears may fill my eyes But I'll stand back up
I've weathered all these storms But I just turn them into wind, so I can fly What don't kill you makes you stronger When I take my last breath That's when I'll just give up
So, go ahead and take your best shot Let 'er rip, give it all you've got You might win this round, but you can't keep me down
'Cause I'll stand back up And you'll know just the moment when I've had enough Sometimes I'm afraid, and I don't feel that tough But I'll stand back up
You'll know just the moment when I've had enough Sometimes I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough But I'll stand back up
BS (me)-26 WH-27 Dday-August 2006 0 kids Married 4 years NC established 1-26-07 status-working on it
"Sometimes, I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough...but I'll stand back up."
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Mudvayne - Happy?
Type-O Negative - Anesthesia
Shinedown - Fly From The Inside
Godsmack - I ******* Hate You
Disturbed - The Game
BS(me) 44
XWW(her) 43
Two beautiful daughters.
There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path :Morpheus
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How 'bout
The Break Up Song
Greg Kihn Band. Classic
Me FWW 36
BH 50
D-day 1 2/18/06
D-day 2 3/28/06 (same EA)
NC 3/28/06 and going strong
7 total children
Mine/ours live with us
DS 15
DD 12
DD 21 months
"With all it's shams, lies, and broken dreams, life is still wonderful. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
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A country song You should have thought about that, when you were cheatin.. don't know who it is....funny
BS-me-43, FWH 43 Married 23 yrs. before A DDay 1-Jan.7th,2006 Kids ages then-21,19,16,14 DDay 2-Feb.1st,2006 Kids ages now-23,21,18,17 H left us for 2 months to live with ow. 5 yrs later still here. One child still at home(19), 2 grandbabies!
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A country song You should have thought about that, when you were cheatin.. don't know who it is....funny It's called "Cheatin" by Sara Evans. You say your every day Is a bad dream that keeps repeatin' Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin' How do you like that furnished room The bed, the chair, the table The TV picture comes and goes Too bad you don't have cable How do you like that paper plate And those pork n beans you're eatin' Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin' How do you like that beat up car I think it's fair we traded Your pick up truck is running fine It's a cozy ride for datin' Yes, I've been out a time or two And found the comfort Iv'e been needin' Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin' You made your bed and you're out of mine You lie awake and I sleep just fine You've done your sowing Now you can do the reaping Maybe you should ve thought about that When you were cheatin' What became of what's-her-name After she spent all your money Did she leave you just like you left me Sometimes life is funny But I'll be glad to take you back Just as soon as I stop breathing Maybe you should have thought about that (repeat 2x) When you were cheatin' When you were cheatin'
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BS (me)-26 WH-27 Dday-August 2006 0 kids Married 4 years NC established 1-26-07 status-working on it
"Sometimes, I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough...but I'll stand back up."
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David Gray
Wave Goodbye
Take your hands off me I don't belong to you And take a look at my face for the last time I never knew you you never knew me say hello and wave goodbye
-another part of the song has a part that says something like:
I'm going to find someone who's not gonna cheat, a nice little housewife who'll give me the steady life and not keep running off the rails
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"Black Cat" - Janet Jackson
All the lonely nights I spend alone Never around to love me You're always gone Cause you're hangin out Breakin' the rules Oh the man has come Looking for you You're a rebel now Don't give a damn Always carrying on With the gang I'm trying to tell you boy It's a mistake You won't realize Til it's too late
Don't understand Why you insist On ways of living such a dangerous life Time after time you stay away And I just know that you're telling me lies
Black cat Nine lives Short days Long nights Livin on the edge Not afraid to die Heart beat Real strong But not For long Better watch your step Or you're gonna die
You're so together boy But just at a glance You'll do anything If given a chance Scheming, plannin lies To get what you need So full of promises That you never keep
Don't you tell yourself That it's okay Sick and tired of All of your games And you want me to stay Better change Makes no sense to me Your crazy ways
Black cat Nine lives Short days Long nights Livin on the edge Not afraid to die Heart beat Real strong But not For long Better watch your step Or you're gonna die
"If She Would Have Been Faithful" by Chicago - Chicago 18
I was thinking about her Visiting the past Reconstructing details with old photographs Studying the faces With an objective point of view Suddenly remembering doesn't haunt me At the time you couldn't tell me That one day I'd be glad That something that I thought was love was misinterpreted She had another lover- she emphatically denied But they were doin' me a favor A blessing in disguise
CHORUS: If she would have been faithful If she could have been true Then I would've been cheated I would never know real love I would've missed out on you
I watch you sleeping- your body touchin' me There's no doubt about it This is where I want to be It's so ironic- I had to lose to win I want to thank her (Thank her again)
CHORUS
Bridge: It's a paradox- full of contradiction How I got from there to here It defies a Logical explanation
CHORUS
Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Hank Williams
(Your cheatin' heart will tell on you) Your cheatin' heart will make you weep You'll cry and cry and try to sleep But sleep won't come the whole night through Your cheatin' heart will tell on you When tears come down like falling rain You'll toss around and call my name You'll walk the floor the way I do your cheatin' heart will tell on you When tears come down... Your cheatin' heart will tell on you
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An oldie, but a classic. I was whistling this the whole day the other day, and to my amusement, my WS started to hum the tune to herself (she's too young to know Hank Williams songs)..hahaha. Put a smile on my face.
Dev
BS - 31 (me)
WW - 29
M ~2 years, No kids
DDay - 2nd Dec 2006
Exposed - 15th Jan 2007
NC started - 14th Jan 2007
NC broken 23rd Jan 2007
NC broken many times since
Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"
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Johnny Cash: God's Gonna Cut You Down Korn: Coming Undone Korn: Liar Puddle of Mudd: She F'n Hates Me
BS:27
WW:24
DS: 4, 6mo
Married: 9/14/01
DDay: 11/9/06
Plan B: 12/7/06 (because I was getting very ANGRY at her)
"Common sense is an uncommon virtue" - Me
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Rodney Atkins Wasted Whiskey Lyrics
I had every intention of getting hammered here tonight. I gave my truck keys to the barkeep Said Dave don't you dare let me drive. But in the middle of this bottle I drank my train of thought off track. So I've gotta stop drinking or start rethinking my reasoning for throwing 'em back
Cause it's just wasted whiskey trying to drink you off of my mind There aint enough bourbon behind this bar I aint got that kind of time So I am going to stand while I can and raise my glass - toast every time you kissed me Cause drinking to forget about you is wasted whiskey.
So here's to new beginnings and to the memories and cheers to your momma and daddy cause they were right about you and me. and here's to Millsap on the juke box and to your new friends you found and here's to our joint account MasterCard cause I'm buying the whole house a round.
Cause it's just wasted whiskey trying to drink you off of my mind There aint enough bourbon behind this bar I aint got that kind of time So I am going to stand while I can and raise my glass - toast every time you kissed me Cause drinking to forget about you is wasted whiskey.
[INTERLUDE] Here, I'll take another...
It's just wasted whiskey trying to drink you off my mind There aint enough bourbon behind this bar I aint got that kind of time I am going to stand while I can and raise my glass - and toast every single time you ever kissed me.
Cause drinking to forget about you is wasted whiskey.
Cause drinking to forget about you - well that's just wasted whiskey.
[Spoken] Hey Dave, I think I got me a ride home - Thanks ol buddy - I'll get my truck tomorrow. See y'all
"Ain't Wastin' Good Whiskey" - Trick Pony
Well, it's Friday night at the Farmer's Daughter. But I'm the only one here drinkin' Barley water. You left me to drown my broken heart. But this one, I'll get over, well, stone cold sober.
'Cause I don't need "Jose", believe me, honey, I'm ok. "Jack Daniels" or "Jim Beam" ain't gonna pull me through. You wasted my time, my heart and my mind too... I ain't wastin' good whiskey on you. Ha, ha.
An' I'll admit, we've lived some on the wild side. We dug our heels in deep an' had a wild ride. Oh but one good shot of you was all I needed, So don't set 'em up, Joe, oh no, I'll stick to H2O.
'Cause I don't need "Jose", believe me, honey, I'm ok. A "Jack Daniels" or a "Jim Beam" ain't gonna pull me through. An' you wasted my time, my heart and my mind too... (My time.) I ain't wastin' good whiskey on you. Ah ha.
[Instrumental Break] (Oh, I think we need a little help from our friends.)
'Cause I don't need "Jose", believe me, honey, I'm ok. A "Jack Daniels" or a "Jim Beam" ain't gonna pull me through. An' you wasted my time, my heart and my mind too... I ain't wastin' good whiskey on you. No I ain't wastin' good whiskey on you. Yee hah.
BS:27
WW:24
DS: 4, 6mo
Married: 9/14/01
DDay: 11/9/06
Plan B: 12/7/06 (because I was getting very ANGRY at her)
"Common sense is an uncommon virtue" - Me
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Stupid by Sarah Mclachlan I will survive by Enrique Iglesias (sp?)
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Break-up Songs: Carrie Underwood- Before he cheats Vince Gill- The Reason Why -- my new fav! George Strait- Give it away Trisha Yearwood- Walk away Joe --- also good! Leann Rimes- Please Remember Shania Twain- It only hurts when Im breathing Faith Hill- Cry Nelly and Tim Mcgraw- Over and Over Sole- We've been tryin to long Christina Aguilara- Hurt
If you've moved on then you are probably at the bar listening to "Pour Some Sugar on Me" - def Leppard
Songs WH who decide to come home should sing to thier Wifey poo: Clay Walker- cant sleep Tim Mcgraw- Its your Love Brooks and Dunn- building bridges Kenny Chesney- You Save me and Me and You Stevie Ray Vaughn- Pride and Joy Staind- It's been a while
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ITA w/ NC007.
Although I'm not fond of all the lyrics...I do like the POWER behind the message of "Irreplaceable" by Beyonce.
I love singing it outloud!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
Mmmm to the left Everything you own in the box to the left In the closet, thats my stuff Yes, if I bought it, then please don't touch (don't touch)
And keep talking that mess, thats fine Could you walk and talk, at the same time? And its my name thats on that jag So go move your bags, let me call you a cab
Standing in the front yard, telling me How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout How I'll never ever find a man like you You got me twisted
You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I could have another you in a minute Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby)
So go ahead and get gone Call up that chick, and see if shes home Oops I bet you thought, that I didn't know What did you think I was putting you out for? Because you was untrue Rolling her around in the car that I bought you Baby, drop them keys Hurry up, before your taxi leaves
Standing in the front yard, telling me How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout How I'll never ever find a man like you You got me twisted
So since I'm not your everything How about I'll be nothing? nothing at all to you (nothing, nothing) Baby I won't shed a tear for you (I won't shed a tear for you) I won't lose a wink of sleep (a wink of sleep) Cause the truth of the matter is (truth is) Replacing you is so easy
You can pack all your bags we're finished Cause you made your bed now lay in it I could have another you by tomorrow Don't you ever for a second get to thinkin' You're irreplaceable
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It's called "Cheatin" by Sara Evans. End Quote
I sang that song very loud with great emotion after dd. I even put the ringtone on my cell phone and attached it to my FWS work cell phone, lol.
I also created a cd for FWS, which also had the song on it, lol. A nice reminder of what happens after the affair. lol.
Love the part about her driving around all comfy in his truck and wondering how the cold beans tasted.
Great song....
k.d.'s heartbreak
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46 Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005 28 years of marriage DD 26, DS 24 O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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