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Hey LilSis,
I will lift you in prayer tonight and tomorrow at 8:30am. God is faithful.
Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B ThreadEphesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
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Prayers to you today, LilSis, that the court will not only uphold the law, but also look at justice. I'm also praying that the Lord will also use this day to soften your husband's heart towards his wife and family.
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12 mo probation 40 hrs comm service
2 pg single sp ltr from rt about how awful i have made her life
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12 mo probation 40 hrs comm service
2 pg single sp ltr from rt about how awful i have made her life how awful YOU have made HER life? OMG <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
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2 pg single sp ltr from rt about how awful i have made her life I would wipe my *ss with it and leave it on her front lawn.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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How about a letter campaign to the district attorney's office (from Marriage Builders Members) regarding adulterous homewreckers and how they make betrayed spouses' lives miserable? That letter was the reason for the loss of the plea agreement?
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[color:"#39395A"]***Well, it's sort of hard to still wonder if you were consolation prize in the midst of being cherished.***
- Noodle[/color]
Devastation Day: Aug 26, 2004
[color:"#2964d8"]"I think we have come out on the other side... meaning that we love each other more than we ever did when we loved each other most." [/color]
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~Archibald MacLeish[/color]
Very Happily Married
Me FBS - 44
Him FWS - 51
I married him all over again, May 07
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A very good friend of mine was baited [very intentionally] by a woman who knew how to work the system and decided she had a personal bone to pick.
The woman started harrassing her when she stepped out of an elevator...and continued taunting and invading her space and making threats.
My friend made a very poor judgement in frank fear and suprise and pushed the womans arms down and away from her [she did not strike her or attack her in any way it was a purely defensive reflex].
The *instant* my friend touched her the woman punched her dead in the face then went straight to the police to press assault charges.
People who know how to manipulate the system can make a lot of trouble...you have to be able to anticipate their rotten sneaky arrows and not fall for the bait...the injustice system is interested in what is CIVIL not what is JUST.
I'm really sorry you got tangled in this knot and I sincerely hope that she gets what is coming to her sooner rather than later.
Cowards die many times before their deaths;
The valiant never taste of death but once ~Shakespeare
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By the way...my apology letter would be an epic of passive aggressive glory.
A veritable THESIS on the pain of affairs and irresponsible choices.
Cowards die many times before their deaths;
The valiant never taste of death but once ~Shakespeare
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Why yes - tell all that you have learned about A's, and how they are damaging to EVERYBODY involved. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
(I would also use the word selfishness a lot, as well as the phrase "rut like a pig" a la Mel.)
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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I can't WAIT until you HUSBAND sees that letter!
(I mean the real one, not WH....)
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2 pg single sp ltr from rt about how awful i have made her life what????????????????????????????
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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please let us see the full text of RT's letter
I love translating these things
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Oh..oops..she wrote YOU a letter. Sorry for the misread.
Cowards die many times before their deaths;
The valiant never taste of death but once ~Shakespeare
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most likely this was a victims letter to the court... not to Lilsis.
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most likely this was a victims letter to the court... not to Lilsis. what is the mindset of a person like RT? a married woman w/ children who has an affair w/ a married man w/ children........and then writes a letter defending her adultrous behavior and trying to play victim? I don't understand how anyone could have that much nerve. I don't understand how anyone (LS's WH) could support her @ this issue. it blows my mind.
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Something to the tune of...it is easier to change your beliefs than to change your behavior.
Cowards die many times before their deaths;
The valiant never taste of death but once ~Shakespeare
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What appology letter?
Not in this lifetime would be my thought!
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most likely this was a victims letter to the court... not to Lilsis.
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what is the mindset of a person like RT?
a married woman w/ children who has an affair w/ a married man w/ children........and then writes a letter defending her adultrous behavior and trying to play victim?
I don't understand how anyone could have that much nerve.
I don't understand how anyone (LS's WH) could support her @ this issue. it blows my mind. I believe her to be a typical WS....not taking responsibility for her part in things.... being a victim which justifies her actions... etc. If her goal is to get Lilsis out of the way...she will stop at nothing to do so. If I were in Lilsis's shoes, I would just keep cool and leave this woman be... everything from this point forward needs to go through her WH. RT knows that Lilsis is behind the 8 ball now.... or so she thinks. If I were Lilsis, I would sit down and write out my story and send it off to the local papers... they LOVE this kind of stuff. It screams scandal! It will help shine a light on the problems that exist for a person trying to keep their family together. The thing that concerns me most about this whole thing.... and today went as well as it could have... is that this is a MAJOR hurdle for Lilsis and her WH. Imagine the resentment that can build over something like this.... frankly, this would have been a deal breaker for me. I sincerely hope that the WH was there to show Lilsis some support... but doubt it..... He allowed the mother of his children.... his wife.... to be sentenced for a crime that only happened because HE was doing the wrong thing! All Lilsis was doing was trying to save her M..... This is shameful. IMHO... today would have been day 1 of plan B if my spouse wasn't there supporting me.
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