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1Heartbroken,
If there are no kids involved and since your marriage is under 2 years old, I believe the MB concept would reccomend to cut your losses and get out. If this is any sign of what is to come in your marriage, then you would be well served to do that before there are kids involved.
If there are kids involved, or if you you choose to do so, then I would recommend the following:

Expose to your husband 's family and OW spouse immidiately
Install spy software on his computer and start tracking cell phone calls
Read up on plan A and start meeting his EN
Repost this in the General Questions II to get most response

Also, put some more background such as kids, length of time together, etc in order for people to help you better. Remember, you deserve better than the treatment you are getting, so do not try to appease him but simply meet his EN with respect.

Best of luck