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The truth looks like basic math
#1799140 12/28/06 11:48 AM
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When you are required to do relationship algeba to make sense of what your spouse is telling you, something is wrong.

The truth looks like basic math, 2+2 = 4.

You should never have to figure out what x=.

I recently asked my mom if anything seemed different about me and my relationship with FWH (as opposed to last time). She said it was very easy to come to the same conclusions I came to. Basic math.

If your not sure you are dealing with basic math or algebra, ask a close friend that you trust. Usually they can tell if you sound like you are working too hard to make sense of things.

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"Truth is the secret of eloquence and of virtue, the basis of moral authority; it is the highest summit of art and of life."

--Henri Frederic Amiel

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My "Feelings on Honesty", My "Reasons why:", The Affair World

Without MB we knew just enough about M to be danjrus.
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((((Loy))))

I've been thinking about you.

Hope that you and your family are doing well.

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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Hi Mimi!

My family is doing very well. What marriage builders did for me, Everyman's Battle did for my husband. The weekend workshop really made an impact on him and gave him so many tools to fight the lure of fantasy the affair provided and stay on the path of sexual integrity. He still participates in weekly phone counseling with the men in his group. During a somewhat difficult part of the day it was my husband who gently reminded me that we're running a marathon. He is my counsel now, and my shoulder.

What a difference 6 months can make.

Loy
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I'm so happy for you.

You're special, Loy...

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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.

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