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Re: Need some clarification on marriage builders
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You did not fail at a marriage. Did you give it your all? Were you here doing your best? Did you want to save your marriage? Did she give you a chance to fix what needed to be fixed? All retorical questions. I know just because you are here that most likely you did all these things.

You have life experince to help us navigate through this whole mess. To help guide us on this path of infi.

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Re: Need some clarification on marriage builders
Anika #1801004 01/04/07 11:51 PM
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Anika,

So how is the thinking going?
Anything new happening?

(Yes, I saw what you wrote and it is what everybody writes in reply to such as I wrote, but sometimes we have to admit that, rosy glasses notwithstanding, I certainly didn't succeed at marriage, and an honest and forthright evaluation of the proceedings would have to conclude that, yes, I failed. Why do people have a hard time accepting failure? I'm sure the first time I tried to walk, I failed at that too, but I do alright now. LOL Failure is only one step on the path to something better. )

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A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
Re: Need some clarification on marriage builders
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Is this the Anika who was in a crises??? Believer? Do you know?

Last edited by shattered dreams; 01/07/07 11:41 PM.
BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04

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