I week before my divorce is final (due to WH adultery), my sister confesses that she and her husband are having a rough time due to a ONS she had a little over a month ago.She slept with her pregnant friend's husband!!! She said she was drunk and hasn't touched a drop since.

I am hurt for her family, that she cares so little for them that she would play Russian Roulette with the family like this.

I am mad that every marriage I know survives adultery but mine. My BIL had an affair years ago and they survived, now sister has done it and they will survive. I know of several families that have survived, why not mine??

I am dumbfounded that my sister is so self centered, what in the he!! was she thinking.

I feel bad for her, when/if she tells her friend, I can't imagine how bad that is going to be. she deserves a smack in the face by her friend.

I need to sort out my feelings of forgiveness and human error and all that stuff. If I can forgive her, then I should be able to forgive myself. I have already forgiven my WH.

What a mess.

{{{Jean}}} i just wanted you to know you were heard. i'm sorry for your pain.