That is EXCELLENT news! Sometimes when they don't get primary custody, they have to face the fact that their affair is causing problems. Hope you have taken some time to relax, and pat yourself on the back.

Time for more updates.

I 'm not sure about how many mistakes I have made in the last 2 weeks but I'm sure there have been plenty.

WW suddenly took an interest in the kids after the custody hearing, that only lasted for about two weeks, during which time she was attempting to be nice.
After she realized that she was still not going to get her way things turned sour again. No agreements were made about settling the divorce actions. The A continues.

After I shut her out and back to plan B again for about a week, she actually came and apologized to me for hurting me, It was a very emotional experience, but still the A continues.
She agreed to most of my terms for a divorce settlement.

She again was nice for a week,

This brings us to Mothers Day, I guess she expected me to set up something special for her on Mothers Day, I on the other hand had made very nice arrangements for MY mother.

I guess back to plan B, In hind sight I should have never stopped being dark.

I had gotten to a point in plan B where I was comfortable, right now I'm back to all kinds of mixed up feelings.

Probably best to go to Plan B. Otherwise you might lose your love for her. It was nice that she apologized, but since the affair continues, it means very little. My ex was always apologizing, and continuing the affair. Watch for actions, not words.