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#1829173 02/22/07 09:52 PM
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OK, I have been mulling this post for some time and today it's like I got confirmation that it really needed to be done.

God spoke to me so clearly through several songs on the radio both going to work and coming back home today. I normally turn the radio down and pray while I am driving, but today it's like God said "Just listen while I talk to you this time." After all, prayer is a two-way conversation we just tend to make it one-way.

Also, another poster here (Rinder) got a lot of inspiration from a few songs I shared with her after she ahd such a bad day. I figure others could benefit as well.

With that, I give you my music therapy thread - songs that have comforted me, encouraged me, and touched me in some way in these terrible days. Another way of giving back to those who have given so much to me.

The music style is mostly Christian Rock or Pop of which I am a junkie. If you go find the music to download be prepared for either heavy stuff or power ballads.

Feel free to join in and add your own.

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Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids.

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Praise You In The Storm - Casting Crowns

I was sure by now
That You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say “Amen”, and it’s still raining

As the thunder rolls
I barely hear Your whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as You mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away

I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will life my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
Every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm

I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry
You raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I can’t find You

As the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away

I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth

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Voice of Truth by Casting Crowns

Oh what I would do to have
The kind of faith it takes
To climb out of this boat I'm in
Onto the crashing waves

To step out of my comfort zone
Into the realm of the unknown where Jesus is
And He's holding out His hand

But the waves are calling out my name
And they laugh at me
Reminding me of all the times
I've tried before and failed
The waves they keep on telling me
Time and time again. "Boy, you'll never win!"
"You'll never win!"

Chorus:
But the voice of truth tells me a different story
The voice of truth says, "Do not be afraid!"
The voice of truth says, "This is for My glory"
Out of all the voices calling out to me
I will choose to listen and believe the voice of truth

Oh what I would do to have
The kind of strength it takes to stand before a giant
With just a sling and a stone
Surrounded by the sound of a thousand warriors
Shaking in their armor
Wishing they'd have had the strength to stand

But the giant's calling out my name
And he laughs at me
Reminding me of all the times
I've tried before and failed
The giant keeps on telling me
Time and time again. "Boy you'll never win!"
"You'll never win!"

But the stone was just the right size
To put the giant on the ground
And the waves they don't seem so high
From on top of them lookin' down
I will soar with the wings of eagles
When I stop and listen to the sound of Jesus
Singing over me

I will choose to listen and believe the voice of truth

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Missing Pages by Seventh Day Slumber

On the outside all we see is clay
That hides the perfect light
But no one really knows the pain inside

I understand how much it hurts
To be the one who's never seen
The missing pages in a magazine

No one knows you anymore
You're lost inside the walls you've built
No one knows you anymore
A prison deep within your soul
There is One who sees it all
He'll give you life you've never dreamed
He can see the pain underneath your skin

It's hard to see you fading
Nothing that I do can bring you back
I pray to God that you don't fade away
Your addiction is a symptom of a lost and dying soul
Without Jesus there's no hope at all

There's so much more this is not the end
It's all in your hands don't throw it away
A beautiful life with so much to give
The image of God underneath your skin

The beauty of God underneath your skin

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Does Anybody Hear Her by Casting Crowns

She is running
A hundred miles an hour in the wrong direction
She is trying
But the canyon’s ever widening
In the depths of her cold heart
So she sets out on another misadventure just to find
She’s another two years older
And she’s three more steps behind

Does anybody hear her? Can anybody see?
Or does anybody even knows she’s going down today
Under the shadow of our steeple
With all the lost and lonely people
Searching for the hope that’s tucked away in you and me
Does anybody hear her? Can anybody see?

She is yearning
For shelter and affection
That she never found at home
She is searching
For a hero to ride in
To ride in and save the day
And in walks her prince charming
And he knows just what to say
Momentary lapse of reason
And she gives herself away

If judgment looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can’t see past her scarlet letter
And we never even met her

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Who Am I by Casting Crowns

Who am I, that the Lord of all the earth
Would care to know my name
Would care to feel my hurt
Who am I, that the Bright and Morning Star
Would choose to light the way
For my ever wandering heart

Not because of who I am
But because of what You've done
Not because of what I've done
But because of who You're

Chorus:
I am a flower quickly fading
Here today and gone tomorrow
A wave tossed in the ocean
A vapor in the wind
Still You hear me when I'm calling
Lord, You catch me when I'm falling
And You've told me who I am
I am Yours, I am Yours

Who Am I, that the eyes that see my sin
Would look on me with love and watch me rise again
Who Am I, that the voice that calmed the sea
Would call out through the rain
And calm the storm in me

I am Yours
Whom shall I fear
Whom shall I fear
'Cause I am Yours
I am Yours


Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids.

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This is the one that I got the title of my whole thread from.


Rebirthing by Skillet

I lie here paralytic
Inside this soul
Screaming for you till my throat is numb
I wanna break out
I need a way out
I don’t believe that it’s gotta be this way
The worst is the waiting
In this womb I’m suffocating

Feel your presence filling up my lungs with oxygen
I take you in
I’ve died
Rebirthing now
I wanna live for love wanna live for you and me
Breathe for the first time now
I come alive somehow
Rebirthing now
I Wanna live my life wanna give you everything
Breathe for the first time now
I come alive somehow

I lie here lifeless
In this cocoon
Shedding my skin cause
I’m ready to
I wanna break out
I found a way out
I don’t believe that it’s gotta be this way
The worst is the waiting
In this womb I’m suffocating

Bridge:
Tell me when I’m gonna live again
Tell me when I’m gonna breathe you in
Tell me when I’m gonna feel inside
Tell me when I’m gonna feel alive

Tell me when I’m gonna live again
Tell me when this fear will end
Tell me when I’m gonna feel inside
Tell me when I’ll feel alive

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Yours To Hold by Skillet

I see you standing here
But you’re so far away
Starving for your attention
You don’t even know my name

You’re going through so much
But I know that I could be the one to hold you

Chorus:
Every single day
I find it hard to say
I could be yours alone
You will see someday
That all along the way
I was yours to hold
I was yours to hold

I see you walking by
Your hair always hiding your face
I wonder why you’ve been hurting
I wish I had some way to say

You’re going through so much
Don’t you know that I will be the one to hold you

Bridge:
I’m stretching but you’re just out of reach
You should know
I’m ready when you’re ready for me
And I’m waiting for the right time
For the day I catch your eye
To let you know
That I’m yours to hold

I'm stretching but you're just out of reach
I'm ready when you're ready for me

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Caroline by Seventh Day Slumber

Where do I begin?
There’s so much I want to say to make it easier
Tomorrow’s on it’s way
Do you believe I want to take your painful memories?
I know you want to run away
I know that you can’t see tomorrow

Chorus:
Caroline, let me wipe away your tears and give you life,
Make you feel beautiful again
Caroline, don’t throw it all away
I’m here tonight to take away your pain.

Yesterday is gone and everything that made you cry has fallen to the ground
I’m here to bring you home, I will always take you back
You haven’t let me down
I know you want to run away
I know that you can’t see tomorrow

(Chorus)

And when you’re feeling all alone and you can’t go on,
Remember I am here
And when you think you’ve gone too far,
I‘ll meet you where you are
My arms are open wide

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Hold Fast by MercyMe:


To everyone who's hurting
To those who've had enough
To all the undeserving
That should cover all of us
Please do not let go
I promise there is hope

Hold fast
Help is on the way
Hold fast
He's come to save the day
What I've learned in my life
One thing greater than my strife
Is His grasp
So hold fast

Will this season ever pass?
Can we stop this ride?
Will we see the sun at last?
Or could this be our lot in life?
Please do not let go
I promise you there's hope

You may think you're all alone
And there's no way that anyone could know
What you're going through
But if you only hear one thing
Just understand that we are all the same
Searching for the truth
The truth of what we're soon to face
Unless someone comes to take our place
Is there anyone?
All we want is to be free
Free from our captivity, Lord

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Make Believe by Seventh Day Slumber

How did I get so far from the promises I made?
Life it seems so dark compared to yesterday
Everything I had the gift that I received
Is slipping through my hands
Now it’s only make believe

Chorus:
I’m fading away and I feel like I can’t breathe
Tomorrow’s gone. How long until I break?
I’m fading away and I’m trapped inside of me
Tomorrow’s gone. How long until I break?

All the things I chose that slowly took Your place
Are laughing back at me and I can’t make it go away
My life is crashing down, another tragedy
Another broken dream, now it’s only make believe

(Chorus)

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Chris's Letter by Seventh Day Slumber

I said that one day I’d be something and everyone would soon be proud of me
I’d sit and watch the day go by and think of all the things I’d like to be
So many of my dreams have gone and now
I’m left with only emptiness
There’s nothing that can make me better,
Nothing that can take away this pain

Chorus:
And I wonder what you’d say if I were gone
Would you cry? Did you even notice something wrong?

I often wonder what’s to live for. I just want this pain to go away
All I have are fading memories, pieces of my broken yesterday
They say every drop of blood meant something
And every ounce He shed was shed for me
Here I am, I’m waiting for You, crying out. I’ve fallen to my knees

(Chorus)

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Word of God Speak...Mercy Me

I'm finding myself at a loss for words
And the funny thing is it's okay
The last thing I need is to be heard
But to hear what You would say


Word of God speak
Would You pour down like rain
Washing my eyes to see
Your majesty
To be still and know
That You're in this place
Please let me stay and rest
In Your holiness
Word of God speak

I'm finding myself in the midst of You
Beyond the music, beyond the noise
All that I need is to be with You
And in the quiet hear Your voice

Word of God speak
Would You pour down like rain
Washing my eyes to see
Your majesty
To be still and know
That You're in this place
Please let me stay and rest
In Your holiness
Word of God speak

I'm finding myself at a loss for words
And the funny thing is it's okay

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Break Me by Seventh Day Slumber

Broken pieces of the man I used to be are all that’s left of who I am
A shattered mass of all my countless broken dreams.
I wonder where I go from here

Chorus:
But I’m on my way and I’m not falling.
You’re all the same
You tried to break me
I’m on my way and I’m not falling
You’re all the same
You tried to break me down

I found the one that I was always searching for
No more empty promises
I’ve come to realize what I’m worth is so much more
More than how you made me feel

(Chorus)

First in line, I’m last in line,
First to eat, I’m last to eat
First in line, I’m last in line
First to eat, I’m last to eat
First in line, I’m last in line,
First to eat, I’m last to eat
It doesn’t matter much to me
It doesn’t matter much to me.

(Chorus)

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As part of my plan A I started playing the guitar again. I learned to play this one just recently.


I Believe by Seventh Day Slumber

Well I’m living with a power and I have never felt this way before
Oh my mind is thinking clearly now
The chains are broken and I’m standing tall
Oh the Lord has never left me
He’s always there to catch me when I fall

Chorus:
I believe in Jesus. Oh He’s Lord of Lords
And King of Kings
I believe in Jesus. He rescued me

It really wasn’t long ago that I was bound by chains and trampled on
I felt like all my days were numbered
I felt so all alone, but I was wrong
Oh the Lord has never left me.
He’s always there to catch me when I fall

(Chorus)

That’s where I find my strength. Falling down like rain.
It washes over me. He’s taken me so far.
From where I used to be. He’s my everything.
That’s why I believe...

(Chorus)

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thanks for posting this.
praise you in this storm was my first "theme" song after i found out about the affair. i made it my myspace profile song.
now i have discovered "Don't give up" by sanctus real. i remember getting in the car one day, having a bad day and the first words on my radio were: "don't give up on love and throw it all away"
i think the song is about a divorce, but could be about adultery.
this is their myspace page:
http://www.myspace.com/sanctusreal

yes, i'm a myspace addict!


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Brand New Man by Seventh Day Slumber


A morning rainbow fills the sky, I think I’m dead
But I know I’m not dead yet
I’ve been missing You, You’ve been here all along
I guess sometimes I just forget
There was comfort in Your breath
You made me believe that life was worth it

Chorus:
I’m a brand new man. I will never be the same
I’m a brand new man. I will never be the same

I remember the day that I met You. The emptiness I had
Could fill a mountain. And I believed it was true,
My pain would never go away
But there was comfort in Your breath,
You made me believe that life was worth it.

(Chorus)

And I’m not looking back
My past is far behind me, yeah
I’m stronger every day
You’ve made me a brand new man

(Chorus)

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Oceans From The Rain by Seventh Day Slumber

And I’m amazed by You. Cause You’re never far away
And all that I’ve been through, Your love has never changed

Chorus:
You make oceans from the rain
Breathing life into this place
And I will drown inside your love
Until I see your perfect face

And nothing I’ve acquired means anything at all
Cause you’re everything I needed
You’re so much more than I deserve

(Chorus)

And I thank you Lord (repeat 4 times)

(Chorus)

The blood of Jesus can wash your pain away

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Great song, I_am_grateful.

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"Great song, I_am_grateful."

It's one of my "go-to" songs....when I just don't have the words..

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