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You guys are AWESOME!!!
If anyone wants to help out with Operation Clog-the-email-addy, see my "exposure" thread.
All contributions will be greatly appreciated.
(BTW ~ WH said that he called OW this morning and said NO MORE CONTACT. I'm obviously not buying it. IF we get into true recovery, though, don't worry, there WILL be a NC letter this time. FOR SURE).
My friends here are so awesome, thank you for your help!!!
~MF
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. 
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Make sure that NC letter is accompanied by an RO.
Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Nevermind ~ I'm done. WH is still so whacked out and I am so burned out on this mess that I'm filing tomorrow.
It sure does mess up things when exposure comes 10 months after dday, after 10 months of working your butt off to Plan A meet ENs, do aalllllll this work, and WH STILL thinks he has the right to treat me like a piece of dirt.
Thanks for all the help, you guys, I am still so glad that I exposed. I will never, ever regret that. It was the right thing to do.
But I'm done. I will still talk to the lawyer about the RO, apparently I've heard through the grapevine that that would be a VERY smart thing to do.
Geez, just what I need. I didn't ask for ANY OF THIS, and look what I get out of this mess.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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