Hi, fwh and my recovery has been going pretty well. Few minor bumps but we seem to be making alot of progress. However today he said something that really took me back. My son has 2 frogs, and he doesn't like it when my fwh gets them out and lets others play with them, he promised him he wouldn't do that anymore. Well today he got them out to let some kids hold it (son was at school). I told H that he shouldn't do that because he promised our son he wouldn't. He said, "he's not going to find out so it wont bother him". A little while later I asked him about that comment and I asked him if he thinks that with us? He said not that this is totally different and got mad at me for even bringing it up. I realize it was only about the frogs but the principle of it really bothered me, how do I know if I can really trust him, if he thinks that way about others?

I'd say trust your instincts on this one. If he thinks that way about others, he will eventually think that way about you. He is still acting dishonestly.

I'd be bothered by that as well.