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Re:Why is Plan B so hard for me?
hopeandpray #1857728 05/02/07 10:30 AM
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HAP-you are so right about the ME ME ME thing...thankfully the only thing I needed was insurance # he also gave me the help desk phone # so know I can take care of anything else...he is so full of himself that he has not talk to the boys since plan b began...the funny thing is I only talk to him maybe a minute but I felt dirty and in need of a shower.LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Marflow WH-49 Me-40 M-16 yrs DS-16 DS-12 D-Day 4/14/06 WH moved out 5/21/06
Re:Why is Plan B so hard for me?
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Sorry you are having to go through this. The one thing that hurt me the most when my now Ex WW left was the effect it had on our two children. I could take her being mean, disrespectful, hurtful, to me but couldn't believe this was the same woman who had loved our children so much but was now placing some idiot's (and her's) happiness above their needs and happiness. I couldn't believe it. Once I found this site I began to understand the wayward a lot better.

You cannot control them and trying to do so only makes them more determinied. You should read all of Harley's books but also James Dobson's Love Must Be Tough as it spells out the need to let them go, learn, fall, crash, burn unti they get, if they do (and some don't i.e. - my ex ww so now she's an eow mom and has to live with that the rest of her life).
Re:Why is Plan B so hard for me?
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I understand the wayward mind set that is the only reason that I have not went to plan D...I know somewhere inside this WH is my H and it is killing him...my H was one of those Dads that was involved with everything his sons did now he can't even bother to pick up a phone and call them that's the part that is hardest for me...my sons are 12 and 16 right now they really need a good male role model it's just to bad it can't be their dad.

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Re:Why is Plan B so hard for me?
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Just when I think no more contact with WH...I call to make a Dr. appointment for DS12...they tell me they have no record for us...so I e-mail WH tell him he needs to contact his benefits...guess what he calls me...why does he keep calling me? I gave him what he wants his freedom...anyway when he filled out his insurance he didn't fill everything out so right now we still don't have medical insurance.

So now my poor DS has to keep itching and the rash is very painful.

Marflow WH-49 Me-40 M-16 yrs DS-16 DS-12 D-Day 4/14/06 WH moved out 5/21/06
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