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Wife gonna give me D-Papers today
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oh dear. Could it be that this was an..............EMPTY THREAT??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I AM SO SHOCKED THAT A WS LIED!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
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She had some kind of papers for me to fill out...she wanted my driver license # and how my name is on my birth cert. Said this starts the D process
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She had some kind of papers for me to fill out...she wanted my driver license # and how my name is on my birth cert. Said this starts the D process In other words, she has nothing except a whole lot of TALK. She printed some papers off the internet. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Don't fill out anything or give her any #s. Just tell her you aren't interested and won't cooperate in any divorce schemes. NO THANKEE! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Yea thats what i said...well told her if she wanted me to fill anything out then get her lawyer to call me
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I have so many emotions right now I still lover her but when she is doing this my love is slowly going away
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namese, your thread title was changed to "wife tried to give me divorce papers 4-20-07." What happened?? Were you served by the sheriff last night?
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No just thought it was better than "wife gonna give me D papers today" just trying to keep it updated...she is so MAD right now..lol
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LOL You stirred up the hornets nest, you bad boy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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That I did. Hopefully she sees this is not what she wants but time will tell.
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I can't sleep!!! This is eating me up inside.
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Well they still sneaking off together...haven't talk to her since the 20th. Think I got myself in Plan B...she said she not seeing me anymore.
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Plan B is for you, not the WS. Is your mind and heart in sync yet?
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I'm so lost on what to do...I'm hurting and she out there with him.
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Well they still sneaking off together...haven't talk to her since the 20th. Think I got myself in Plan B...she said she not seeing me anymore. Get proof and show it to his CO!
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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if she has left her husband and "says" she is in the process of filing for divorce i do not see how this is going to harm om's career. all his co is gonna want to know is that her marriage is being disolved. if it is then i do not believe they are going to give om a hard time.
i am telling you, mine got a slap on the wrist for it, that was it. she is not military, if she was a marine too i think it would be a whole other story. i still think it was worth me telling my exes co but other than it showing them he has a sleazy character, nothing else happened to him as far as i know. like i said, he bring ow to military functions for crying out loud.
she has left her h and is not living with om. i don't think any of this is going to matter to the military at all.
nem, just keep living your life. leave the door open for her to come and talk to you. otherwise, leave her be. when you are around her, be in plan a and show her what she is missing but otherwise be indifferent. she won't be able to stand it that you don't care anymore.
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mlhb,
The OM has been given a cease and decist order from his CO barring him from having any contact with OM. Get evidence of continued contact and forward it to his CO.
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So Jim even though she wants a divorce I can still bust him for seeing my wife.
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Follow up with his CO. Sounds like OM hasn't had enough of you yet.
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