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Gonna take it all the way to the top if I have to.

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So Jim even though she wants a divorce I can still bust him for seeing my wife.

YES

But get some proof if you can.


Jim

BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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believer #1862564 04/30/07 12:47 AM
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Think my WW is staying at OM house

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Get proof and send it to his CO. NOW!


Jim

BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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Does anyone know how much a decent PI would cost???

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Tonight she text me asking for my DL number...haven't heard from her in ten days then this.

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She mad because I won't give her things back...the things I bought for her. We had a joint account but when I found out I took my money elsewhere and now she doesn't have much left and is mad telling me I need to write her a check to cover "our" expenses.

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You are under no ethical or moral obligation to finance her affair. She can underwrite her own madness. Don't be used.

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She called again...i didn't pick up but she left a message. I'm out of town she just wanted to know who was taking care of "our" dog. I wanted to call her back but have to stay strong but this plan B is real hard.

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Is it normal to start having bad/hate feeling for WW in plan B???

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