From what I remember, Mimi was in very much the same situation; her boys were grown and the OW had none of her own (I think?). She (Mimi) sold her home, and Plan B'd her little booty off.

They are recovered.

No matter what, folks, Plan B is the best thing for you.

Maybe you guys could start another Killer Bee's thread, or I could see if I could dig up the old one from last year. It helped to keep a Plan B thread going, even if just to shoot the breeze...

Blondblossom,

I also had the same thoughts. I'm in that very situation. Our DD and OW's kids are grown. OW is single. We sold our house 1 month ago and I am in Plan B. I support myself, so my WH was free to move to OW with basically no worries - no house, no kids, no support payments etc. My only hope is that OW will drag him down financially since she has had past issues with bankruptcies and gambling.

BUT, I can see that Plan B has been good for my recovery. I bought a condo and I have been doing very well. I'm spending time with friends, shopping for some furniture and decorating items, and am finding that it is nice to be away from the drama of the A.

Actually, I'm doing much better than I ever thought possible. The day we moved, I bottomed out I think. WH said he didn't want to be M anymore. Didn't think I would make it through that day. But once I got into my new place, which is bright, cheery, and clean, I did a complete turnaround. My personal recovery began.

bump

great post for all current and future plan Bers!

WH has been with OP for 1 year now.WH says I'LL get my D papers in Jan.My question is;the fact that he has now filed does it change the dynamic in affairland?Obviously OP will be happy but will WH expect more from her or what?

I know we will be in the 3% that does not fail. D in Oct H married OW in Nov I have been in a dark Plan B since March 06 doing my own recovery.

Is the affair still an affair now that they are married H seems to think that now that he is married just get on with it, ignore what he done before and start a fresh life.