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Been around these parts off and on for about 5 years. Me: BS. He was involved in a long term affair and we were separated for the better part of my 5 years here.
A couple of false recoveries. He returned each time to his AP.
Last February ('06) he asked me for a divorce and I filed that month. He dragged his feet about agreeing to a settlment or about mediation, but we finally reached a settlement agreement this March.
My divorce was final 4/30/07. Very much mixed emotions. Another roller coaster experience4.
But I'm ok...I really am. I have my life back and I will do great.
Hugs to all and best wishes for recovery - in whatever form it arrives.
Married '85
Me: BS
D-Day 7/02
Plan B 5/03, 7/03
Numerous False Recoveries
I filed 2/06
Divorce Final 4/30/07
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I remember you.
Glad you checked in.
Still
BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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Remember you too. Sorry to see what your update is from your siggy line. (((stillhurting10)))`
Married '85
Me: BS
D-Day 7/02
Plan B 5/03, 7/03
Numerous False Recoveries
I filed 2/06
Divorce Final 4/30/07
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I remember you and lostbird. Sorry you got divorced. I'm divorced too, and loving it.
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Pepppppppppppppp! Hi gurl1ll!
Married '85
Me: BS
D-Day 7/02
Plan B 5/03, 7/03
Numerous False Recoveries
I filed 2/06
Divorce Final 4/30/07
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Hey, Believer! OMG! Long time no speak! I thought your dv was final a long time ago...not so?
So glad to see you again and to connect!
Married '85
Me: BS
D-Day 7/02
Plan B 5/03, 7/03
Numerous False Recoveries
I filed 2/06
Divorce Final 4/30/07
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