While hitting the tenns ball this morning with my sister in law, I asked her if she had any new love interests. She said that she had been seeeing this guy, but just broke up with him last night. I asked "was he a jerk?', she said "no he was awesome!". I asked well why did you break up with him? She said "if I told you, you would get mad at me". I paused and asked "is he M?" She said yes.

I just can't believe that she could do that. I had a heart to heart talk with her about 6 months after H's A (her brother). How it devastated me, blah, blah, blah. She sat there and cursed her brother and the OW. She even went and heckled OW at a seminar she was giving last year. WTH

We talked a little more and she said she ended it because it was wrong and she knew it, but she wanted the SF, cause it had been 9 yrs since she had any. Hello...what about a single guy? She said that she felt he was safe cause he was M and was "fixed" and she didn't want a R.

What the heck happened to the woman I knew?

She went on with a little entitlement cr*p so I tried not to preach, but I was floored.

She said that he had been out of town in Ariz and when he got back he went directly to her house, not to his and to his wife. He said that he was in love with her. She ended it. Yeah...nice.

I asked her what is her plan if he calls her again, she said she didn't think that he would. I told her to be prepared, he will.

Again, a person who saw first hand my devastation, but changed her beliefs and values because it felt good. I'm losing all respect as I write this. This sucks!

Tell her that she needs to tell OMW.

Join the crowd. My cousin called my ex WW who she was friends with and blessed her out a few weeks after D-day. Fastforward a 18 months and she is having an affair of her own with a comparable lunatic to my ex WW.

I have been helping her husband implement plan A, exposure, et al in order to destroy the affair and hold accountable loser POS OM including supplying the BH with alienation of affections papers from which to draw up and serve OM by next week's end.

I know she does. I haven't told her that yet. I think if I told her that right now she'd go off on me. She wouldn't want to get him in trouble (you and I know differently though).

I want to keep the channels open with her.

hope,

I just don't get it.